Time to Step Down...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Time to Step Down...
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Sun, 12-26-2004 - 5:27pm

Dear Lesbian Life Friends,

The time has come for me to step down as a community leader for iVillage. This is not a sudden decision.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2004
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 12:30am

Geez, I come home from celebrating with friends only to find out(by reading this post) that your stepping down. Only you know what's best for you, but please know that I do love and care about you. Geez, You were one of the two people that greeted me here when I came here to this wonderful community, I hope that you're going to stay and have fun with us. I really do wish that you would stay, you were one of the reasons for me to stay and get to know everyone.

Confused, stunned, but loving hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2004
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 2:59am

OH
MY
GOSH

Pam, I am in complete shock, I didn't see this coming at all. I want you to be happy, and rested and I want you to have some free time to enjoy your new home - but I have to admit I am really selfishly sad about this news. NO ONE will ever fill your shoes, and we will never have a more gracious and wise leader. It just isn't going to be the same. I hope you come and post here as often as you can, I will miss you very much. We ALL love you Pam, take care of you.

Love and hugs and tears -
Sandra

Sandr

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-06-2003
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 9:59am

*SHOCKED*


(((((((((((Pam)))))))))) I know that you know what is best for you right now, and if that is what you feel you must do, I won't beg you to stay on, although I'd like to.

~ ML ~  

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2002
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 10:19am
Greetings, I am not surprise by your changes in your life. I have learned so much from you and your widsom. I will stay in touch with email. I hope to see you around the board :)
Change is difficult but necessary in one's life, may you have peace, joy and love in whatever you do in your life, Pam. I wish you all the best and take care of yourself!
gracemae59
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2003
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 4:05pm

Sob, sob, sob!


Best wishes to you Pam.

Kim
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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2004
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 5:11pm

Pam,

I am very new to this board, as you know, but even I hate to see you go. It is clear what a wonderful support and friend you are to the ladies on this board. I wish you all the best and, like the others, hope we will see you around even though you won't be running the whole show. Take care!

Jules

Jules

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 7:10pm

Oh Pam.
I saw this yesterday and it truly bummed me out. Though I havent been visiting here as much as Id like, Ive always found you to be one of the sweetest, most accepting people around here. Never judgemental, kind and an overall good soul.

You gave alot to this board, and brought some good things here. Your presence as a CL will be missed.

Oh, the good thing outta all this? Im gonna sit around to watch you break Tos. LOL

xoxo
A

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 12-27-2004 - 9:03pm
*raises plastic medicene cup for toast(nyquil of course)*lol
we love you here nusre pam...you helped each and everyone one of us in one way or another(or a million ways)....we that you will still post here...or at least after you take your breathing room do so....if you ever need/want to email me ...I am at stillbuggin30@yahoo.com .I will always try to be there for you and be the friend you have been to me....This board and you could possibly be the only reason why i sit here today....long ago I lost the most important thing in my life and really I have no clue what saved me,but I know much credit goes to the people on this board who were at that time close to strangers to me....people cared and didn't have to,they gave me compassion and didn't have to.....some of you,including you nurse pam were more helpful then my own family....so for this and many other times you gave me advice I am in debt to you...and my friendship you will always have....after you take your time..we look forward to hearing from you...if you need me I will be an email away....with love my dear friend,our dear leader,Johanna
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2003
Tue, 12-28-2004 - 4:03am

I was more than surprised to read this yesterday.. and oh so very selfishly sad. But maybe this will be a good thing for you Pam, perhaps being so closely tied to this board has infringed on other parts of your life. One can certainly see you're more than busy enough as it is!! So I'll quit pouting, smile for you and send wishes that your newly-found free time is filled with gorgeous dykes!! ( LOL.. not to mention the mounds of email from all of us here!!)


You ARE still expected to come stay with us over your holidays!!
We love you very much Pam, sincerely
Nony & Lou

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2003
Tue, 12-28-2004 - 3:10pm
I've mainly been a lurker on this board for the last two years but I will miss the insight you have offered so many. You always took the time to answer all who ventured here into LL with an understanding and compassion. You will be missed by all even those of us that mainly stay hidden . Good luck with any and all ventures you choose to take.