Please help - weird situation!

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Registered: 11-15-2004
Please help - weird situation!
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Sat, 01-01-2005 - 6:24pm
I can't believe that I'm even posting about this, but I'm really confused and embarrassed, and I need advice. I met a really awesome girl on-line, and she's turning out to be a great friend. The only problem is that she doesn't view herself as a girl. She admits that she's a female, but she likes to be referred to as a male. She also won't go by her real name - she'd rather be called my a male's name. I don't mind, but this is new to me, and I'm not quite sure how to respond. Has anyone else ever experienced anything like this?

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sun, 01-02-2005 - 2:56am

My beautiful Jen is like that. She tells me stories about her childhood...she has always acted like a boy, one is my favorite -she asked for one of those fake shaving kits as a child. That christmas she got the Ninja Turtle kit she wanted and where do you think she put the shaving cream? On her face. I would have been inclined to experiment on my legs but not dear Jenny. She is fantasic. She is very athletic, walks like a guy, thinks like a guy, sometimes talks like a guy. She says "how you doin" like Joey from Friends and I melt. BUT, she is curvey like a woman, has long beautiful hair like a woman (which by the way is only down in the bedroom - at my request) she never wears makeup but when she does, holy TOS! She is like having the best of both worlds. SHe takes care of me, even though she is much younger. She opens doors for me, covers me when I am cold, protects me. She is 100% woman, the best kind of woman. Would she ever wear a dress? no way. Heels? nope. Pink shirt? no again. Today she had on mens basketball shorts and tee shirt - holy cow she looked cute. I am glad that women all come in different packages, inside and out. She is absolutely perfect.

Pink, if you like him, give him a chance. You never know what might happen. But please, don't call him weird. Try wonderful!

Hugs, Sandra

Sandr

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sun, 01-02-2005 - 7:10am

Hey Laurie!

Your question was do you feel like a male on the inside?

Your ans is yes. I've been told by my best friend, Natalie, that I think like a guy, and I dress like a guy, and I walk like a guy, I sit like a guy, and I talk like a guy. But the only thing is, I will never remove my breasts or have anything else changed. When I'm feeling amorous, and when I'm talking to my girlfriend on the phone, I deepen my voice. But I know that I am a lesbian, through and through. Sometimes I like to listen to my voice on my voice mail, and it sounds soft and I guess sexy, but, I just shrug and hang up. I've been told by at least two people from this community, that my voice is sexy, and all I can do is blush and laugh. I simply don't hear it. I hope that gives you some more info about me, but please do ask me more questions. Might I suggest, an email, perhaps?

Hopefully, I'll be a chat tonight, so that I can answer more questions, and maybe my girlfriend will be "here" tonight, also.

Hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce

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