I feel much better!!!

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I feel much better!!!
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Wed, 01-05-2005 - 2:19pm

To all of you that posted and tried to offer advice, solace and comfort, I THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!!! You don't know how tremendous you all are...such huge hearts. It was the support I needed so desperately. I haven't been here in a while, it's because I went back to work THANK GOD!!!

I got a great job as an Executive Admin Asst with a great company and I'm working crazy hours making excellent money and I'm half way to getting my sanity back on track. There are still many sore points, and ironically enough, my job has been one of them with my GF. Now she resents me because I make double what she makes. But I just told her, those are YOUR issues. You'll have to come to terms with that. I've made a decision to try and decipher the difference between feelings that originate from me, and feelings of HERS that I've taken on as mine. Let me tell you girls, it makes a helluva big difference when I decided to dump her baggage and just carry my own.

I have made a vow to myself that I am going to start doing the things that keep me sane and make me feel good. It's amazing how much you give up in a relationship; mainly yourself. I do feel better, and I hold my head up a little bit higher now. Anyway, thank you all for your support and words of encouragement. I hope to become a source of the same for any of you that may ever need it!!!

THANKS LADIES

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((GARGANTUAN HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Lafaye

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Wed, 01-05-2005 - 2:25pm
what a wonderfully positive post!
keep on trucking!

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Wed, 01-05-2005 - 3:39pm


Your welcome lafaye. I'm glad that things are working a lot better for you, and please keep up the good work for yourself and your son.

Please stay around and enjoy yourself!

Hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Wed, 01-05-2005 - 5:52pm
Good for you lafaye!!! I hope things will continue to grow in more positive ways for you.
Maybe your partner will do the same and things will feel fresher around the house.
Ya gotta love this board!
Hugs,
Laurie

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Thu, 01-06-2005 - 12:47am
WOW! Good for you, I am so happy for you!
It's nice to see some good news once in a while.
Hugs, Sandra

Sandr

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 8:57pm

So Happy for you Lafaye!

*hugs             

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Fri, 01-07-2005 - 8:54pm

Thanks Caly,

I'm hooked now. Just try gettin' ridda me!!!

LOL

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Sat, 01-08-2005 - 10:32pm

Lafaye,


mom to 4 kids and in love with the most awesome and beautiful woman in the world!

 

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Sun, 01-09-2005 - 1:09am

Hmmm...sorry about that.

I sent a test to myself and it came through okay. Thanks for trying!

Lafaye

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Sun, 01-09-2005 - 12:13pm

Hi Lafaye,


mom to 4 kids and in love with the most awesome and beautiful woman in the world!

 

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Sun, 01-09-2005 - 6:20pm

Hi Carol,

Sorry about the email issues. I forwarded this post to myself. I'll definitely be doing some research on this.

Thanks so much!

Lafaye

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