I am just wondering....

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Registered: 03-26-2003
I am just wondering....
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Sun, 01-09-2005 - 10:44pm
Been by myself and wanting a relationship. It's been over a year and am looking for a true luv relationship. I'm looking for a I luv you you luv me relationship. Was married for 25 years and have had three relationships since with females. One lasted 8 months, the second lasted over 2 years. She came back after a year and wanted to continue but I decided not because of her past drinking problem. I am looking for a LTR with someone who enjoys sitting at home and watching tv, playing games on the net, (spades, hearts, etc.) andj luving to be with each other. I apogize for my shortness but am hoping for a relationship that is true.
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Registered: 02-15-2004
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 4:41pm

Dear Lea, Hello, please forgive me, my name is Gigi and I also welcome you to Lesbian Life. There is an Intros and Announcements folder underneath of the Fun and Games folder.
Just scroll down and you'll see it.

Either way, welcome to our wonderful community. I really am a plesant person, and I'm not rude whatsoever.

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 6:04pm
Hey lea, if you don't mind me asking, what is confusing you from the posts?
Others come here seeking answers as well and not everyone has the answers everytime but we do try.
I do hope you will give it a chance?
Hugs,
Laurie

My web pages
http://homepage.mac.com/lauriedav/PhotoAlbum1.html http://hometown.aol.com/didoangst/myhomepage/photo.html
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Registered: 03-22-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 6:30pm

Hi again Lea!


Well we would certainly love to help you figure things out if we can.

*hugs             

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Registered: 01-09-2005
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 8:52pm

Ok, Like I mentioned, not sure I should post here.
I am married, but deeply in love with a girl,
and ever so confused. This is not a crush, I have had those
before, but this time, I don't know........

Lea

 

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 10:10pm

Hello Lea, this is Gigi again. Everyone else will tell you the same thing I will, it's ok to have a crush on a woman. It's all part of being a human being. Don't worry it's nothing unusual. Of course, only you can figure out if you're a lesbian or not, but believe me I had my share of crushes. I mean the kind of crushes that make you just forget all that you are doing, and when you hear her voice, it just makes your heart jump and float at the same time.

Like I said back in someone's posting, that for me, love springs eternal. I'm falling in love with my girlfriend, even if we don't talk on the phone, but everytime I hear her voice, I just get so giddy and happy. Well, that's enough silliness out of me thanks for sharing, and again, please forgive my rudeness for not welcoming you before.

Hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 10:40pm
Lea,
Of course you can post here unless it makes you uncomfortable.
There are other people on this board that are in your situation.
You should feel free to post here and ask questions or give your oppinions or just whatever you are comfortable with.
You do not have to lable yourself and most people do not care for lables. We just are who we are and love who we love.
Take care, and please feel welcomed here,
Hugs,
Laurie

My web pages
http://homepage.mac.com/lauriedav/PhotoAlbum1.html http://hometown.aol.com/didoangst/myhomepage/photo.html
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 11:06pm
I know what I want and I have not reached this peak. Yes, I am a dreamer but at my age I know what is realistic. I just want an honest, real relationship.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 11:17pm
I may have asked over and over again. But no answer did I receive. It is a tough question, I know. I only ask for the truth. Sorry all, but am in a downer tonight. I guess I only seek understanding not questions. Questions welcome but I feel I am being read wrong.
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Registered: 02-15-2004
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 11:42pm

I'm sorry if you're being misunderstood, but everyone here seems to not want to offend you, but for myself, you keep bringing up your age, and that seems to be an issue for you. I'm trying to be helpful and gentle, but you're not making it easy for me to be that way. Buterfli, every one wants an honest relationship, but you also have to be honest, too. Everyone that you meet couldn't possibly live up to your high expectations. Sometimes you have to meet that person that you seek with a sense of balance and acceptance.
There are women that are a bit older than you, that have no issue about their age, and they're happy, so what's up with you?




Edited 1/11/2005 12:11 am ET ET by igentleheart

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Tue, 01-11-2005 - 8:29am

Hi Buterfli,


I guess Im just not sure what answer you are looking for.

*hugs