G/F Has libido again I will kiss the doc

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Registered: 06-24-2003
G/F Has libido again I will kiss the doc
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Tue, 01-11-2005 - 3:58pm
As most of you know Sheila has not been interested in sex at all for the last 3 years or so. It has been very hard on our relationship, but not bad enough to break us up as we are still very much in love. We have been going to her doctor for help. It is finally working.
She has informed me that she has been feeling normal in that area again. We of course have been talking about all the threads on the board concerning this type of problem with couples.
The doctor prescribed Wellbutrine and it is now helping.
We are planning a special day on Thursday all to ourselves. We will start off with a trip to Pracilla's Wednesday evening. She has Thursday and Friday off this week. She said that she wants it to be very special. I cannot wait!
It seems to have come after the increased dosage of her Wellbutrine.
I appreciate the fact that she has taken the step to seek medical help. She did it for me so that I would not doubt her attraction and love for me.
Sheila said that the meds have made her feel better physically and mentally. She is not so worn out like she was and is dealing better with the stress at work.
She says she just feels human again.
I also could kiss her doctor for understanding our delicate situation and talking to us and working with us in a way that was very understanding. She never made us feel embarrassed once.
Hugs,
Laurie

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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 1:42am
Oh and yes, Sheila has quit smoking on Wellbutrine.
I have a joke in my act when I talk about therapy etc.,
My doctor put me on an anti depressant called Wellbutrine to help me stop smoking and it is really working...
Ohhh, I didn't stop smoking,... but I am not depressed about being a failure.
Ok that is the joke. I really was on it and it did not help.
Sometimes I like to start out by saying reflectively...
Wellllllll you can't smoke at the gym anymore...
Oh well they are never as funny just when they are written down.
Hugs,
Laurie
Laurie

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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 1:46am
Sometimes I feel like I am the only smoker left on earth. lol
If I am with non smokers or they are at my house I try not to smoke or I go outside if I absolutely need to smoke, then I chew lots of gum.
I hope to quit soon.
Thanks and tell your Mom I said I wish her luck too.
Hugss,
Laurie

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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 1:49am
Thanks Halo and I am sure that girl is out there for you. I hope you find each other soon.
Hugs,
Laurie

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 1:55am

Well, Laurie, I smoke cigars but I don't inhale them, I guess it's just an oral thing.

Anyway, congratulations to the both of you, on your returning desire.

Hugs!

 


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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 4:19am

Laurie-


I weaned myself from nearly 10 to about 5 smokes a day in December. ( I

 

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 10:03am

You are so funny Laurie!


Hopefully someday we can all come see you in action!


Hugs!

Sandr

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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 1:02pm

Laurie,

Congratulations! I am so happy for you. Maybe now your heart can heal, your relationship will flourish, and the love that has sustained you through this trial will become as strong as three ropes braided together.

Many happy days (and nights) to you lady!

Lafaye

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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 3:23pm

Have a blast < weg > !


Huggles,

Robin

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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 8:26pm
Wow Lafaye.. What a really beautiful way to express that..
*Smiles "CAT"
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Fri, 01-14-2005 - 12:20am
Hi Sandra,
I am glad that you think I am funny.
I would be afraid of all you ladies in the audience because I do believe all of your witty minds would gang up and heckle me. I would be soooo out numbered. Hahaha.
Thanks,
Hugs,
Laurie

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