A Question For Laurie...

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A Question For Laurie...
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Wed, 01-19-2005 - 10:17pm

Hi Laurie,

I had a question for you. I think I'm just needing some hopeful news lol! My GF told me a few days ago, after we had a bit of a heated argument, that her libido was back. I don't know how long it's been that it's been back; I was so shocked that I didn't ask. And nothing has really changed as far as our intimacy. I was curious as to how things were going for you and yours since you shared your good news a while back.

Hope that's not prying into your business, but I guess I'm trying to keep despair at bay.

Thanks Laurie and I DO hope things are going fabulously for you and your GF now.

Lafaye

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Sat, 01-22-2005 - 8:45pm
Laurie

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Mon, 01-24-2005 - 7:46pm

*grinning at all the hot girls rekindling their fires*


I love the way this thread has developed. It's a hard subject to talk about, so filled with emotion and esteem issues.. but

 

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Mon, 01-24-2005 - 8:10pm
Hey, hi nony...wait...Hi, hey nony that is...
That is nice to hear coming from a long time regular of this board.
Good to hear from you,
Hugs,
Laurie

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Mon, 01-24-2005 - 8:13pm

hidey ho non.. errr neighbor


:)))


Lol ~~


*hugs* ~

 

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Mon, 01-24-2005 - 8:50pm

Once again Nony, I must stand up and applaud your post.

Kim
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Tue, 01-25-2005 - 3:47am

Thank you for posting this Kim. It's nice to hear from the low libido side of it, and know that the love you have has pushed you to try. Diligently and when it's just NOT there...your lover understands.

I can happily report, (although still painfully and I know it will be this way for a while, but sometimes sacrifice is what it's all about) that Chris and I are definitely on much better terms.

I have noticed a subtle difference each day that grows since last week alone, and for the first time today, in a LONG LONG TIME and ATN can come for me LOL...(tos) it felt DAMNED good to have my woman look at me with that dazed look of adoration, completely NOT hearing anything I was saying. And have her interrupt me in the middle of an intense discussion and say, "My God you take my breath away. There's the fire,the passion I have so been missing." I swear I had a true foo foo moment lol. It felt wonderful. And I can't begin to tell you what it did to my poor old battered ego when it happened a second time. All I did was style my hair a bit different, gloss my lips, line my eyes and voila!

She was completely in tune to what I was saying even though she was distracted, she's been so kind, gentle and loving, attentive in a way that has amazed me. I am speechless and thankful.

IT was wonderful!

So, good things do come to those who wait. I have to keep my side of it going. LOL...hope to have more to report that is positive. Laurie my dear, take heart. I hope you had good things to report over this weekend.

Hugs,

L.

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Tue, 01-25-2005 - 9:52am
I can sum up my weekend in 2 words... Aunt Flo. :(
Laurie

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Tue, 01-25-2005 - 8:26pm

((((((((((((((((((Laurie))))))))))))))))

I feel you. Nothing happened physically for me either. But with a cast iron will I managed not to bring a pall over the whole weekend. I was so tired by the end of the day just trying to keep the beast at bay I didn't have the energy even if she'd offered LOL...talk about irony. But I'm still trying to stay positive, and focused on the goal I've set for us. I know I'll have my bad days, but I'm am trying with all I have. And hoping...

HUGS to you!!!!

L.

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Tue, 01-25-2005 - 9:00pm
I hear you too lafaye.
I got all new make up etc.staying strict on my diet too and we are starting to work out. I used to work out up until my disabilities got worse but the doctor said that it is worse not to exercise. So I guess it is true, no pain no gain.
Hugs,
Laurie

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Tue, 01-25-2005 - 9:07pm

Working out is something I love to do. I love to sweat!

rj :)

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