*wow*

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Sun, 01-23-2005 - 7:09pm

ok first off...WOW! At one of the many places i work (yes, i work at several places....i'm *18* and have 4 jobs ...one's an unpaid iternship though :( ) anyway...

This one girl i work with her name's Patty Ann. i have been working with her since i started at that place a little more than a year ago.. First time i saw her *omg! i am definately going to LOVE working here!* I still aboslutely love working with her. It's awesome, we are both smart ass'es and so the whole day working in the restaurant we'll be picking on one another playfully and then laughing about it. The environment isn't a huge area either, so there's time when we're behind the counter and we'll have to swqueeze by on another...which in turn forces physical contact, but somteims it's more than necisary. Like there have been times when she would instead of just gently pushing me forawrd with her hand so she could get by, she would instead grab me with both hands around my waist and move me. Everytime that happens i almost drop on the spot for a moment. Then there's times where i'll be looking at our closing list which tells us what needs to be done before we close, and she'll come right up next to me and grab it and then this huge grin comes across her face and she'll be leaning up next to me. Then she'll jokingly tell me to go and do something (the majority of the time that i work with her, she's usually the acting manager, or at least one of them, and i'm basically given the same responsiblities omst of the time without the title). Since i'm a smart ass i'll make some comment about why she's not doing it, theni 'll go off with a grin on my face and do it.

today though there was just this one incident where i am just amazed at my self-control. I was preparing a deli item or something and then she had to do something as well in that same area. As she was passing by me she made a smart ass comment to work faster. As she was saying that we were facing face to face and we were so close that our noses were almost touching. She grinned and stsred me right in the eyes as this huge smile came across my face and i stared her right back in the eyes. We exchanged words for a min or two like that...and it was just like omfg! i owuld have leaned in a little further if the time and place were different...if only...lol...god i hope those little occurances pop up even more.

Now don't get me wrong i am still head over heels for JC. It's just different with Patty because the age difference isn't as great (she's like 22 i think). Also there isn't that whole weird "don't go there, untouchable" kind of area like there is between a student and a teacher. If i was so lucky enough to get to choose between the tow of them i would still definately choose JC in a heartbeat.

anyway, just had to share that since it just absolutely made my day.....lol
take care,
~Jenn

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Registered: 08-08-2003
In reply to: firefighter_28
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 7:15pm

Hiya Firefighter,

First off: All the hats I own are off to you for working 4 jobs and you're only nineteen. Talk about energy and drive. LOL...you GO girl!

Second, this post pulled me right in. It's like something out of a great book or movie, perhaps moments that we've all wished for (Luckily, I have had this happen and it is truly intense, one of those unforgettable moments).

Talk about chemistry. It's totally cool this happened. I live for moments like that !

LOL...I got goose pimples just reading it.

So, do you think that something could develop?

Keep us posted on this one!!!
You've given me an idea for the question of the week!
Lafaye

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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: firefighter_28
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 7:17pm

is it just me or does it seem like there might be something there? I feel like she's dropping some kind of hints there and they are very welcomed on my part by all means! lol It's just somehow letting her know that...

if so any suggestions on what to do? i have thought about asking her if she wants to hang out some night and go catch a movie or something, but just never got up the nerve or i wasn't free, or i didn't see her that day i was able enough to actually ask her.

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Registered: 08-08-2003
In reply to: firefighter_28
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 7:24pm

is it just me or does it seem like there might be something there? I feel like she's dropping some kind of hints there and they are very welcomed on my part by all means! lol It's just somehow letting her know that...

if so any suggestions on what to do? i have thought about asking her if she wants to hang out some night and go catch a movie or something, but just never got up the nerve or i wasn't free, or i didn't see her that day i was able enough to actually ask her?

Well, I for one, am all for excitement and adventure and this one seems like a sure fire one. If she's playing the you get close, I get close game then there is some kind of spark there for her. She's definitely going beyond when she's wrapping BOTH hands around your waist lol. Keep playing it out...see what happens. Or ask her if she'd like to hang out in a place besides work where you both can be more relaxed. Gather your courage, and see where it goes. You never know, sometimes something good is right in front of you.

I say go for it. But take it easy at the same time.

Good luck!!!

L.

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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: firefighter_28
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 7:35pm

lol actually i'm 18, and still in highschool...yeah 4 jobs, definately a lot...but tbey are spread out enough for me to handle.. one is working as a junior firefighter, another is my restaurant job (whiich i loooovee soooo much..hehe, the 3rd is my internship at my local international airport, i work with the airport operations specialists to maintina the overall security of the airport and make sure the airfield is up to par accoridng to the FAA regulations. My last job is only a temp (it will last for about 1 month) that's at the VT Teddy Bear Factory boxing bears and PJ's for them for the holiday season.

god i hope something will happen between patty and i ...that would be awesome. I honestly don't know, but everytime we're around one another we both work a lot better. A lot of times we'll be acting as a support system for one another when dealing with some of the other employees that don't know how the hell to work. Everyone at the restaurant for the most part is between the ages of 15 - 30 ish. Of course usually it's us two running the place and getting stuck with all the younger workers that either don't work fast enough or don't really work. Some of them though are good. But there's been times where she'll be looking out for me and we both have gotten to know our attitudes pretty well. So if she sees somebody pissing me off she'll end up asking me if i want to do something different and basically make me space between that pesona and i. It also works the other way around. If she's busy worrying about somehting happening in the front because of the lack of good hard workers, and then something starts happening in the back that goes wrong or stars getting out of hand i'll go and help her out and take charge of the back. I get done what needs to be done and come back up front and she's usually all over me about it afterwards and thanking me.

But omg! the whole physical contact part of the job. I don't ever really see her acting in the same manor around any of our other co-workers. i mean you know she'll get them to move out of the way by pushing them in as well, but in the ore professional sense that everyone else does with eachother around the place (hand on the back). Occasionally that's how she ends up getting me to move as well, but most of he time it's lower than the back, like around the waistline, which is just the biggest turn on for me. It makes it even harder when i feel her body brush up against mine and then her hands are on me. She's not afraid to handle me...lol if that sounds right ...haha..
also today as we were heading out she was putting on this white hat, and it was tall! i picked on her about it b/c it had this huge white ball on top. she told me not to pick on her hat and then i was just like " i wasn't, i just think it's cute", then she just answered "oh i know i am " god i thought that was the cutest thing ever, so i just grinned.

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Registered: 08-08-2003
In reply to: firefighter_28
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 7:54pm

LOL...what a awesome story.

It sounds to me like there is something there FF. Let it spin out...don't put nothing in it that doesn't need to be there. See what progresses. And you have to keep me informed. I'm hooked on this one...

Lafaye

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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: firefighter_28
Sun, 01-23-2005 - 7:57pm

lol oh i will, i love seeing replies to my posts... so i will definately have to keep you informed..

glad you're hooked ;)

take care,
~Jenn

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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: firefighter_28
Mon, 01-24-2005 - 3:44am
Jen,
I have to agree with lafaye, I was pulled right in also. Like reading one of those novels and getting to the good part.
Jen, it is ok to date, it is exciting and fun. This is exciting and I think you should keep us posted on what happens. It does sound intense.
Have fun!
Hugs,
Laurie

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Registered: 03-22-2003
In reply to: firefighter_28
Mon, 01-24-2005 - 8:00am

VT Teddy Bear Factory boxing bears and PJ's for them for the holiday season.


WOW!!!!!!


Are you in Vermont?

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Registered: 11-29-2004
In reply to: firefighter_28
Mon, 01-24-2005 - 1:08pm

Girl don't let that fire die out! :)

Put fuel on the fire and play it up! Let her feel like she's in control. I'm with everyone on this one. Sounds exciting to have those feelings; I like when things like that linger in the air! Perhaps someday I will meet a girl that does that to me?

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halo

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halo

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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: firefighter_28
Mon, 01-24-2005 - 8:10pm

wow....small world....lmao yeah i live in Vermont

i actually live about 30 min away from the factory...mad gas and moilage eveyday to and from there! I am in williston.

hey are you involved at all with the Outright of Vermont? just wondering

that is cool though
*grins*

take care,
~Jenn

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