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| Mon, 01-24-2005 - 11:22am |
Hi ladies, the weekend went well I actually got to spend all weekend with Tina as well with her kids and her dad. I had a wonderful time being with her. I do have some ? or need input,please. She has an ex that she was involved with for 5 years and ended very not nice, she has another ex who is the mother of her child, which she coparents. I know and realized that this ex she must communicate with. I am not jealous, but realize that this woman I am seeing is the type of person that wants everyone to get along and being happy. She has asked for my feelings and thoughts on these issues.This woman also saids she is completely over each person as she as not been in relationship within the past 2 years and hasn't date since last fall. But it is interesting that both of these women are jealous because I am the total opposite of them. Everyone is surprised that Tina and I dating, because of the differences, but I see that has a benefit and we balance each other.
Caring for each other is one thing, but how involved does an ex comes into the picture? Does this make any sense? I am secure and comfortable with everything, but worry about the emotional aspect of seeing this woman think too much of the others that were present in her life. I guess I really don't know what I am seeking. But for now life is good and will get better once I have a job, car and computer.
Everyone have a great week! gracemae59
Caring for each other is one thing, but how involved does an ex comes into the picture? Does this make any sense? I am secure and comfortable with everything, but worry about the emotional aspect of seeing this woman think too much of the others that were present in her life. I guess I really don't know what I am seeking. But for now life is good and will get better once I have a job, car and computer.
Everyone have a great week! gracemae59

I'm not sure that an ex should have much involvement in her life, unless she was the coparent. The coparent should still communicate information about their child with respect to health, school, and any of the child's emotional issues.
Just my 2 cents.
I agree with Gbud that the ex who is
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