my dad is coming back home tomm

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my dad is coming back home tomm
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Sat, 01-29-2005 - 6:57pm
TOS prevents me from sharing my feelings on this matter,yet let it be known they are not feelings of joy....my dad and I have a very very bad relationship....I'll be letting him know he is now home for good,rather he wants to be or not and will begin looking a place I can afford to move very soon.....I know when living with him my attitude changes for the worst...he brings out the worst in me....have a great one ladies,Jo
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Sat, 01-29-2005 - 7:38pm

Sorry to hear that Jo.

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Sat, 01-29-2005 - 8:39pm

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My dad and I aren't close. I don't think I could live with him either. I live by myself. It is hard sometimes, but the freedom is priceless. Take it easy. Keep us posted on how you are doing.

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Sat, 01-29-2005 - 11:23pm
Awwwww (((((Jo))))) I know how that can be.. A lot of people have that kinda problem with one or the other of their parents.. Some both.. ack!..
I do hope you can figure out how to avoid conflict, until you can get out of there, and I do hope(matter of fact making whispers to angels now for ya) that you can move real soon..Hey Hon.. Perhaps I haven't read all the posts as great as I can, but did you say your Aunt lives by herself now, with your uncle having passed?.. Perhaps you and her could join together for a bit? You help her and helps you also? I dunno just an idea.. Maybe not a good one.. Only you know.. Keep us posted..
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Sun, 01-30-2005 - 9:57am
Hi caly......thanks but yeah is will be as bad as I envision...he comes and goes frequently....last time I was over-joyed when he finally left again.He is going blind so this time he may not leave again.Things coming from me may sound harsh but he has been unfaithful to my mom thru there entire marriage(33 plus years).....but yeah I do hope that I can find a place sooner or later and at least I get to escape to work everyday...have a great one,Jo
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Sun, 01-30-2005 - 10:00am
yeah my miss my own place.....nothing like being on your own/having a place you love to live and then having a 50 thousand surgury that puts you out of commsion for four months...have a good one,Jo
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Sun, 01-30-2005 - 10:05am
hey cat,yeah I talked about renting a room from my aunt....but not sure if we are joking(she is rather) ,if she would really want someone to live with her right at the moment....she may do voluntering alot now and well may want to get used to her space by herself for a little bit.....it is a thought though,lol...we'll see what happens.....dad knows who is boss for now though :)...have a good one,Jo