400th and last post.

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400th and last post.
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Mon, 01-31-2005 - 9:57pm

I am laying down the sword.


Just about one month ago I lovingly took up the sword to try and keep this board going the way you all wanted.

*hugs             

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Registered: 12-15-2004
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 10:01pm

What??!! Failed??? Huh??? How can you say that? You're an awesome CL, Caly! Don't think any differently, please!!!!! I would feel so very sad if you left as our CL. Please reconsider.

Jules :o(

Jules

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Registered: 03-21-2003
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 10:11pm

I let people down if I go,

*hugs ~ Caly

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Registered: 12-15-2004
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 10:19pm

Oh hon, you aren't letting me down. I just feel sad that you feel you haven't done a good job. And I think you're so great. Of course I'll be your friend. And you have to do what is best for you, Caly. Really. If the stress is too much, then step back and take care of yourself, okay? I am so sorry if my post put more pressure on you. I just wanted you to know I care, that's all. Yes, I got your email today. (((((hugs))))))

I hope we'll still see you around even if it isn't as a CL.

:o)

Jules

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Mon, 01-31-2005 - 10:36pm
Wow ((((Caly)))) This was the first thread that I opened /this post... and I haven't read any others yet so am not sure if something happened that I missed or what? I am sorry Hon that you are having stress and I am sorry we will have to lose you now as our Cl but.. You must know you did a great job at doing so!..
I had fun with all the great things you came up with and your a warm and sweet person.. Please don't beat yourself up over this.. You did great!.. But if it's to much for you thats understandable.. I knew when it was open I could not take it on because I knew I could not handle it..
Just having you here as you...

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Tue, 02-01-2005 - 5:34am
What the TOS is happening???
What happened???
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Registered: 01-28-2005
Tue, 02-01-2005 - 7:24am

You know Caly, I wish you the best. I think you've done a wonderful job here at LL as cl. I want to thank you for all your hardwork and effort. If you are too stressed or it is too time consuming to be the cl at LL, I can understand the stepping down. Lord knows, I wouldn't have time to do it.

However, please don't lump me in with whoever made the rude comment about you not being right for the board. Whoever that is, I hope this person or persons step up and get to work. I guess they like to be an armchair quarterback. It is easy to set back and tell someone how to do their job when you are doing nothing.

I would like for you to at least try something for me. I would like you to stop beating yourself up after someone else has beaten you up emotionally. I've been there. I've done that. It is a horrible thing to do to yourself. You don't deserve it. So, try if you want to find those untruths that your mother taught you as a child about yourself. Reveal those untruths and show their falsehood. Then, you can begin to fight her hurtful words. A part of the hurt is the belief in what she says.

Take care and best wishes,

bug

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Registered: 03-21-2003
Tue, 02-01-2005 - 8:41am

Thank you everyone.


Please know that there are many many reasons I am taking off the hat.

*hugs ~ Caly

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Tue, 02-01-2005 - 8:53am

I don't get it.


(((((Caly))))) email me if you need to "talk"


bethh137@yahoo.com


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Tue, 02-01-2005 - 12:30pm

Caly, right now you think that everything is in an uproar. In time, your stress will ease. I hope you visit us soon. I appreciate your wit ans wisdom, and the way you treat the newbies as well as the regulars on the board.


Take care of yourself.

 

 

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Tue, 02-01-2005 - 1:28pm

Caly,


I am in complete shock. As you know, I have been away from the board a while, I needed to focus on some other things and this board is so active that it's just too much to keep up with as a poster - I can't even fathom trying to CL here alone. I am so so sorry that you feel the way you do, I can tell you are having an extremely difficult time and are being very hard on yourself.


Let me tell you from experience, moving is very stressful, divorce is very stressful, coming out is very stressful, and

Sandr

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