Seriously Disturbed

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Seriously Disturbed
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Thu, 02-03-2005 - 11:21pm

Sorry ladies, had to remove this one out of consideration to Laurie and Sadie...


Sandr

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Fri, 02-04-2005 - 1:16am
Vell tank you my Dear...
So S-veet of you..LOL..
I am interested.. I love contraversol<(Spelling?) debate-type things..

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Fri, 02-04-2005 - 1:35am
Me to lee, I need to get the post back up. It is a good one. I hope to have it up soon. so hang on.
Hugs Laurie
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Registered: 09-29-2003
Fri, 02-04-2005 - 1:40am
*Picture in your mind..( Poster.. with cat)..*Words ** Hang in there**Haaaaaaaa!
Us "CATS" are good at hanging...I'll be up

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Fri, 02-04-2005 - 2:06am
Cat's also like to prowel at night. Just watch out for those pesky raccoons.
And stay out of my trash can.
Hugs,
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Registered: 01-28-2005
Fri, 02-04-2005 - 7:36am

Hey Sandra,

I agree with you that divorce should not be celebrated. With work and school, I haven't the time to read every post. I'm not commenting on any post in general. So, no one cyberslap me! :)

Divorce is painful and terrible. It was an awful experience for me. I felt like I was going through a death. Even when you are divorcing someone you aren't getting along with, divorce is difficult. Because, it is like Montel Williams said one time..."The two of you liked each other enough at one time to have sex." So, at one time or another you deeply cared for this person in some manner whether that be friendship or romantic.

With that typed, I think what should be celebrated is a new beginning. And, I see nothing wrong with one wanting to celebrate their coming out.

This is just my opinion and I could be way off base, but I think what you miss is the lifestyle you had. You worked from home. He provided you with a better material life. Am I right? And, don't feel bad for wanting those things. Everyone wants them. But, it is like Oprah said once, "Marrying a rich man has a price too." I know he wasn't rich, but he provided material things that you now want again. You paid a price for those things. Believe it or not, your daughter did too. If you truly wasn't happy then she knew it.

So, if I were you, I would sit back and think about what it would be like to go back again. And think of a day to day life back with this man. Be truthful. I think you'll find that you paid a higher price than the pool and home office job were worth.

Just my two cents.

Take care. I liked your post. I like it when someone sounds off like this.

buggie

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Registered: 02-01-2005
Fri, 02-04-2005 - 7:37am

Well Good Morning all.


Seems there was so intense discussion last night.

 *Hugs ~  Caly

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