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| Fri, 02-04-2005 - 3:21pm |
Hi ladies, I realized I posted in the wrong place,oops! Well the woman I was dating I had to end it today. This person is a 38 years, 3 kids, ages 16,11 and 2 yrs. She lives at home for the past 3 with her parents, very wealthy background. But this person had a nervous breakdown 3 yrs ago and try suicide last yr. because of a 6 yr relationship that ended badly, she is best friend with the baby's mom of the 2 yr. which that relationshiped ended after the baby was born and said that friendship no one comes inbetween, also they use each other for sex. This person told me, that I did not stimulate her mind with good conversations, that silence isn't suppose to happen between two people. She also told me that I was not a strong person and that I can't sort out my emotions or feelings. Everything she told me within the 3 weeks, she has retracted. She told me that it is her way and her way only, that she is arrangont and that she is drop dead sexy and that she can get any woman she wants. She beleives in no intimacy in dating and that sex is sex to use each other. She also pick apart my life and my lifestyle,told me that I was a prim and proper, reserve uptight person.
I told her that I could and would not continue to be with someone like this, a lesson learn and I do hurt.
I am still putting resumes in, I have my name on the sub list for a private school. I have started to some work with the church to keep busy and work out at the gym as well.
Otherwis, the savings acct. has dried up and I live on 472. a month.
I am blessed to have a roof over my head and that I have good health and friends. I am not at all like this person said I was and that is what hurts.
Everyone have a great weekend! gracemae59
I told her that I could and would not continue to be with someone like this, a lesson learn and I do hurt.
I am still putting resumes in, I have my name on the sub list for a private school. I have started to some work with the church to keep busy and work out at the gym as well.
Otherwis, the savings acct. has dried up and I live on 472. a month.
I am blessed to have a roof over my head and that I have good health and friends. I am not at all like this person said I was and that is what hurts.
Everyone have a great weekend! gracemae59

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gracemae~
I am so sorry you are going through this. Although I imagine you will be much better off in the long run, away from this person, I know that doesn't reduce the pain & sadness at this point. I think it is great that you are aware that you are not what she says. Hold onto that realization. We all encounter people who see us or judge us in an unfair way, and it really can hurt. But at the end of the day, when you know the truth, that is what matters. I am going through this with my stbx...and I keep reminding myself that his words and opinions do not change who I am. The same goes for you! Take care of yourself and continue to remember who your are.
(((warm hugs)))
Jules
Jules
I agree with this statement so much. It is the most important thing to remember.
I hope that you will continue to believe in yourself and stay strong.
Hugs,
Laurie
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