Just needing to vent....

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Registered: 01-09-2005
Just needing to vent....
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Wed, 02-09-2005 - 9:28am

Most of you don't really know me here. I am shy, but quick to warm up, if that's how you want to call it. I just need to express what I am thinking.

 

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Wed, 02-09-2005 - 10:09am
Awwwww lea,
That is a hard position to be in.
If you don't want to be patient, you could tell that woman if she is trying to drive you away it is working. Then see what her reaction is, of course that could make it totaly worse.
It sounds like she is getting frustrated with the way things are going for her, like you said her whole life was turned up side down. Maybe you just happen to be in the line of fire since you are so close.
If being patient is what you really want then I wish you patience.
And send you lots of big hugs,
Hugs, Laurie Check out my new blog. co-cl of Lesbian Life Message Board Email- didoangst@comcast.net http://didoangst.blogspot.com/ http://www.4-lesbianlife.com/
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Registered: 01-31-2005
Wed, 02-09-2005 - 11:02am

((((((((((Lea)))))))))) You are in a hard place. Long distance relationships are difficult, whether there's conflict or complete happiness. The dynamics just aren't the same as being with your love in person obviously. I think communication is key. Deal with things that are bothering you. Don't bottle them up and keep quiet.

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Registered: 01-09-2005
Wed, 02-09-2005 - 1:30pm

Thanks.

 

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Wed, 02-09-2005 - 2:08pm

I agree with what Ting said.

Kim
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Thu, 02-10-2005 - 7:32am

 

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Registered: 02-01-2005
Thu, 02-10-2005 - 7:40am
Lea you are always welcome to email me through my profile and I will answer as soon as I can, promise

 *Hugs ~  Caly

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Registered: 01-23-2005
Thu, 02-10-2005 - 8:29am

Hi Lea. Well, I do not have personal experience with LDR's, but between TiNG and Kim sharing thier experiences I think you've gotten some good advice. Communication is definitely important. By bottling up your fears and emotions, you are not being fair to you or to her, and that could be a real relationship killer in the end. Maybe she is trying to push you away, and if that's the case, it's better to deal with it now than to continue worrying yourself over it. Then again, maybe she has a lot on her plate right now and like Laurie mentioned, you're just in her direct line of fire and she does not realize how she is upsetting you. Definitely talk to her. Get it all out in the open. You'll feel better.


You can email me anytime you want hun. (((((hugs)))))

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Thu, 02-10-2005 - 3:27pm
Lea,
You can email me anytime....
imnlove22@yahoo.com
I would be glad to listen anytime.
Sandra

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