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Farewell
| Sat, 02-19-2005 - 10:55am |
I have truly enjoyed reading and talking to many ladies here, but this will be my last post for now. My life has taken a major turn and I am about to lose my children, spouse, mother

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Lea,
What are you saying? Are you going to work things out with your husband?
You know, no matter what you decide, and YOU have to be the one to decide, you can still come here. THis board is for everyone and it sounds like you are going to need friends that understand. You will always have that here.
I haven't heard from you in a few days, email me and tell me exactly whats going on with you, I care about you.
Sandr
Lea,
What a horrible position to be in. I'm so sorry that it had to come to this for you. I had to make a similar decision many years ago, and it all worked out eventually. Love will find a way to make all things right. Focus on the children for they are your legacy...everything they are is because of you. It's a hard thing what you are about to do, and I agree with Sandra about posting here...Not many parents make their children a priority, and for years I put my happiness aside for mine....love did find a way, and my ex ran out of threats, and out of time with me. When the moment is right, things will work out for you, have faith and don't lose hope. Take the time to find legal support and backing...find a good counselor who knows the law; you will need that eventually.
hugs
halo
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halo
(((((( Lea ))))))
We havn't met before, but please know I feel your pain. All I can do is support you in your decission and pray for your well being. Please come back ,when you are ready, and post to all the friends you made here. These ladies here are the greatest friends and advice/hugs givers.
I wish you peace of mind and strength in your soul that all ends well for all.
Many tight hugs,
Robin
**Please remember to sign your organ donor card...it can save someone's life**
Sounds like you have had to make a decision based on threats.
I am so sorry lea. Please stay strong and make the best of it.
I wish that I knew what to say to comfort you.
You are still welcome to come here to vent and share.
you will be missed.
I hope that one day you will find true happiness.
I am sorry for the pain you must be feeling right now.
Take care of you and the kids.
Laurie
co-cl of Lesbian Life Message Board
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Aww (((((((LEA)))))))),
Hon I surely hope you don't stop posting here. It seems you've made a most difficult decision, one I found myself in almost 3 years ago. But I prevailed and so will you. We here at LL care about you, and want to be here for you. I commend you for putting your children first; so many people don't. And in the end Darlin' you will win the war that's being waged in your life.
Don't give up, keep fighting for YOUR RIGHTS too. Your children will benefit from YOUR happiness as well as their own. I don't fully know your situation, but know we're here for you. You can email me anytime. I always have extra space on my shoulders.
Hugs, and please please keep in touch Lea. We'll worry for real if you don't.
Hugs and love to you,
L.
Lea, many people on this board can tell you that I know exactly what you're going through. I cannot go into detail on this board anymore, but I am going through the same exact thing at this time.
If you need an ear, please email me. I'll even give you my # if you need to talk about things.
co-cl of Lesbian Life
my email bethh137@yahoo.com
my blog http://silouhette.blogspot.com/
(((((((Lea)))))))))
I'm sorry you are having such a rough time. But, no matter what decisions you make in your life, you can always post here. You don't have to leave. I don't know much about what is going on with you right now. My life has been so crazy with work and college that I have little time to read all posts. But, I can type that it wouldn't bother me if you continued to post. I don't care if you are married, single, or whatever.
Hugs!
buggie
Lea,
Many, many of us have been in the position you now find yourself, and there's not a one of us who would shake a finger or turn her back for the choice you're about to make. Children own their mother's hearts and maneuvering our lives while accomodating this fact is so difficult!
If you need to stay away in order to make the heterosexual pretense easier on yourself, I understand that as well. But we'll be here for you if at any point your true self needs communion with other like-minded souls. We play and we joke, but we're all here to support eachother - that includes YOU!
Wishing you the best always
*hugs* ~ Nony
I can empathize with what you are going through. My ex tried a variety of ways to harrass, belittle, and dehumanize me. He might have won some skirmishes but not the war. My ex is actually very civil to me right now.
Stay strong, for yourself and for your children. (((hugs)))
My Dear Sweet Sweet Lea, You know you mean the world to me! Although none of you here know me (sorry i usuallly post on bisexual board but I heard a friend was in need), I have known Lea almost a year, She is an awesome woman! I believe she is very strong willed, not to mention very sexy. Lea, you know I am here for you, day and night any time you need to talk! Stay Positive, remember what I said. A woman is a very emotional creature and often difficult to figure out, and a woman will break your heart like no man has ever, and when you are in love with someone you will look past their imperfections.
Stay strong for yourself, stay strong for your children. You have my numbers, and I expect to hear from you tomorrow!
Halo & CL-Laurie (and/or anyone else), Thanks for the help tonight in chat! Please feel free to contact me any time jents72@yahoo.com
Jen
Bi_Sag :-*
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