my kind of date

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Registered: 08-02-2004
my kind of date
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Mon, 02-21-2005 - 8:07pm

Well my "date" went ok I think, I still do not know if it was one. She seemed to spend the night telling me that she was not a great person but I think it was nerves and there was no kiss at the end but it was uncomfortable so that's what made it seem date like:)

Either way I have decided to just date for a while, I plan on asking some women I know to hang out soon and just take things casually for a while.

That means no sex because I want to be in love next time but I'll not worry about that and just have fun,

This is so different then what I'm used to, usually I meet someone we hang out and then were a item so it should be a challenge.

I came home and was emotional and crying because I thought that since I once again did not find someone that was the "one" i'll be alone for every but mu wise friend told me that since this has not worked for me before I should try something new ergo the dating thing.
I'll be honest with them all and be honest to myself:)

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 2:46am
I think it is a good idea to do the dating thing, I did it for a long time. It was fun and exciting. It did not mean I had sex with everyone. Dating is a good way to figure out what you are really looking for or not. I think it is healthy.
Keep us posted! And have fun with it. Don't expect everyone to be "the one".
If it were so easy it would not be special when it does happen.
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Registered: 08-02-2004
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 3:29am
Thanks, that's my goal to have fun and learn more about me and others:)
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Registered: 01-23-2005
Tue, 02-22-2005 - 8:32am
You definitely have the right idea, just haning out casually, no sex involved! It's when you're trying too hard that you don't find "the one", kind of like watching water and waiting for it to boil, or watching grass grow? LOL. Casual friendships are fun, and they're the best way to get to know someone on a deeper level. Becomming friends first is the best beginning to a relationship!

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