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Sun, 02-27-2005 - 1:23am

Here is the question. Can a woman of 56 years of age and given birth to six kids and was married for 31 years and had a first time and might I

Lynnie

 

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Registered: 01-28-2005
In reply to: ivlynnie55
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 9:50am

My answer to your question is YES. Why not? Sexuality is a complicated subject. I think it is possible to have loved a man for years and have room in your heart to love a woman in the same manner.

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In reply to: ivlynnie55
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 10:53am

Yes, you could be gay, or you could be experimenting.

 

 

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In reply to: ivlynnie55
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 12:30pm

Of course she can!

A lot of people don't realize what they're missing until someone comes along, they get involved, and suddenly things click that never clicked before. Or people are bi and never explored that. Or maybe someone's feelings just change over time. Or they meet someone extraorindary that just overcomes their usual feelings.

Don't forget, you don't have to pick a side. In fact, I think sometimes it's healthier if you don't. You can just live your life and see what comes down the pike.

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Registered: 08-08-2003
In reply to: ivlynnie55
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 1:37pm

Hi Lynnie,

I would say yes, but there is more to it than just one encounter. For me it was something that has always been there. Since I was old enough to understand my sexualty.

Which was around 15; I realized I was very attracted to other girls.

Is this something that has been with you always, or was it just an experimental encounter?

Welcome to LL,

L.

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Registered: 01-23-2005
In reply to: ivlynnie55
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 8:35pm
Welcome back kathy! Where have you been hiding?

 

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Registered: 01-23-2005
In reply to: ivlynnie55
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 8:40pm

Welcome to LL Lynnie!


Sure, it's possible. There are many "latebloomers" (actual term among lesbians who discover thier sexuality in thier 40's or later) who have asked the same exact question you're asking now.