Dreading the 4th

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Registered: 01-28-2005
Dreading the 4th
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Thu, 03-03-2005 - 9:07pm

I'm not posting this for a response like...Happy Birthday. Really I'm not. But, I dread my birthday so bad. My birthday always feels lonely. Does anyone else feel that way on their birthday? Or, am I just weird?

Of course, then you have like family to call and ask..."How was your birthday?" or "What did you do?" Or, you have coworkers ask the same thing. And, I find it hard to come up with something that sounds at least decent.

I'm thinking about seeing a movie. Probably on Saturday though. The new Will Smith movie. See, that goes to show you how much time I've put into knowing about his movie- I don't even know the name. I'll be going by myself. I'm wondering if I should just wait until after I'm over the hill to attend movies by myself...(like the next day)

I could always go out to eat by myself... That's okay...I've done that before...

I should stop dreading the 4th. I'll probably do the same old thing...go to the Y, workout, and sit in the sauna. Except on the 4th, I can sweat thinking about what it is like to be 34 and celibate.

Hey, at least I'm not blowing chunks anymore. As a matter of a fact, my appetite is back, and I wouldn't mind having a slice of chocolate pie. M'mmmm

Good night!

signed,

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Registered: 03-30-2003
In reply to: bug1971
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 10:13pm

(((((Bug)))))


First off let me say


Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Often, when one is single, life rolls along just fine until we run into things like birthdays and holidays.

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Registered: 09-07-2003
In reply to: bug1971
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 10:17pm

Hey buggie!


Happy (early) birthday!


You've got mail (sent to the addy through your profile)... thanks!


Hugs!


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Registered: 02-15-2004
In reply to: bug1971
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 11:20pm

Happy Birthday Sweetie!


I didn't know your birthday was on the 4th. Mine is too! Next month though.


I don't care for them either, so I can't give you a pep talk. I do have one good thing to mention - at least you aren't turning 36 like me.


Huge hugs!


now bend over....


smack


smack


Sandr

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Registered: 11-29-2004
In reply to: bug1971
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 11:42pm

Happy Happy Birthday Bug!

Thank goodness it's not over the pot, and your feeling much better today! ;)

hugs
halo

hugs

halo

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Registered: 02-01-2005
In reply to: bug1971
Fri, 03-04-2005 - 8:39am

Hey Bug Friend!


Happy Birthday!!!

 *Hugs ~  Caly

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Registered: 01-31-2005
In reply to: bug1971
Fri, 03-04-2005 - 8:53am

Happy Birthday!!!!!



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Registered: 01-23-2005
In reply to: bug1971
Fri, 03-04-2005 - 10:00am

Well darn, Sandra beat me to the whip. So, I'll just give ya 34 kisses instead!


~xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


HAPPY BIRTHDAY {{{{{BUGGIE}}}}}


Glad you're feeling better too! Treat yourself to that dinner and movie, and when everyone asks what you did, tell them that you had an enjoyable night out on the town!


 

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Registered: 07-24-2003
In reply to: bug1971
Fri, 03-04-2005 - 10:08am

Awwww, I am sorry you dont enjoy your birthday. I love mine and probably will forever. I am like someone said...I tell everyone and if they foreget I get sad. I think of it as a day of me too. I know I am not quite as "over-the-hill" as you but I will get there and for me, my "over-the-hill" will come sooner than the age. :( But, I want you to celebrate this day cause it is YOUR day! So have a good one and enjoy yourself! My little man will be 6 tomorrow. Love my little Pisces! Dont know about you but he is the poster child for Pisces! So Happy Birthday!
(v)MandiJewell
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The Fishes
Febuary 20 to March 20
Traditional
Pisces Traits

Imaginative and sensitive
Compassionate and kind
Selfless and unworldly
Intuitive and sympathetic

On the dark side....

Escapist and idealistic
Secretive and vague
Weak-willed and easily led

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Registered: 09-10-2004
In reply to: bug1971
Fri, 03-04-2005 - 3:04pm

Robin

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Registered: 01-28-2005
In reply to: bug1971
Fri, 03-04-2005 - 7:06pm

Thanks. That was an extremely well versed message you typed. It all made sense. How do you do it? :)

Take care.

Hugs,

buggie

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