Got my final Divorce Papers

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Registered: 09-10-2004
Got my final Divorce Papers
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Thu, 03-10-2005 - 4:21pm

I should be happy, right?


I am soooo emotionally and

Robin

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Thu, 03-10-2005 - 5:43pm
I can share my Serequill, It will knock you on your TOS for at least 12 - 16 hours, then confuse you for a few more.
Robin, I can say this, you can be proud of yourself for getting this far. It is a brave thing you are doing and going through. Just remind yourself why you are doing this divorce thing everytime you start to feel bad about it. I am so proud of you for how much you have done alweady wobin, wemembew when you had no idea what would happen to you? And now you have your own little place and a job and kicking TOS!
You will be fine my friend. Because we would not let anything awful happen to you. You know that right?
Talk/type to you soon,
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Thu, 03-10-2005 - 5:51pm

I have some Cymbalta... I took it and I know I can't stop smiling... hee hee...

Seriously, I've never been married, so divorce is something I haven't been through, but I watched my parents go through it. It isn't easy from what I saw. When you spend time out of your life developing something with someone, it's hard to watch it die. With them goes a part of your life. But look at it as a new start. It doesn't have to be a bad thing. Easy isn't promised to anyone. Take the experience of it all and grow. Hugs, Hugs and more Hugs!

You are loved.

Myka

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Thu, 03-10-2005 - 6:56pm

Hang in there Wobin! I'm not at the final stages yet (really wish I was), but I've heard it's very common to have those mixed emotions for a while. Just take care of yourself and take it all one day at a time.

Jules

p.s. Sorry, but I'm all out of Xanax ;o)

Jules

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Thu, 03-10-2005 - 9:50pm

Thanks ladies :) I'm feeling a bit better


You're right Laurie ... I have come a long way this last year :) !!!


I'm so proud of me, no one at work died at my hands & I found my Xanax :)


Hugs and lots of love,

Robin

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Thu, 03-10-2005 - 11:36pm
((((((Wobin))))))) I hope the customers fared well today! You're one step closer, hang in there!

 

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Fri, 03-11-2005 - 12:09am
(((((((Hugs Robin)))))) When I feel bad for my ex or think nice about anything with him, I just think about all the pain ..tears.. and horrible stupid time I wasted with him and Then I don't feel so bad for him or the break-up

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Registered: 02-01-2005
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 7:33am

Glad you are feeling better Wobin!


My ex and I had been seperated for almost 8 months before our divorce was final because there is a mandatory 6 month waiting period in VT.

 *Hugs ~  Caly

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Fri, 03-11-2005 - 9:18am

(((((((((((Wobin))))))))))))) You can expect to feel many different things after your divorce is final. You did share some good times with your STBX, and you won't ever forget those. Of course you will have lots of emotions surrounding the finality of it all after spending so many years with him, no matter how bad things got between the two of you.

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 10:58pm

Robin,


I know this is a weird time for you - I just went through it myself. I have good days and bad...more good though. The only thing I miss is letting someone else worry about how the bills are going to get paid.


If you ever want to talk one on one with someone about this, email me through my profile anytime!


Huge hugs,


Sandra

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