Dilemma for the Day!

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Registered: 03-10-2005
Dilemma for the Day!
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Thu, 03-10-2005 - 4:34pm

Eh up Ladies!

Here's a dilemma for you! I have ben in lesbian relationships now for about the last 8 years! The relationships that I have had have been great, and the sex has been fantastic, but I spilt up with my long term girlfriend about a year ago, I have had a couple of 2 month relationships since then with 2 lovely people,but they didn't work out! Anyway here is the dilemma!...................

I have just started a new job and met this really nice bloke! I know that he fancies me and he is lovely and good looking! I thought I was definately gay but now I am confused with my feelings for this bloke! HELP! Any advice aould be gratefully recieved!

Fuz.xxxxxxxxx

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 5:03pm
Hi fuzz.
I am not sure we have met before so just incase, welcome to the board.
I think it is ok just to be with the person you have feelings for and whoever it is that makes you happy. Who cares which gender it is if you are happy?
I have dated a very few men too. Just something about them that struck me like women do I guess. I didn't question it though. I am a go with the flow kind of person most times.
I think you should see how it goes with this guy/bloke without picking apart the why's.
Just go with the flow.
I am sure you will get all kinds of thoughts on this.
Keep us posted as to what you decide.
p.s. You seem to have an accent...where are you from? New Jersy, haaaa.
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Registered: 11-29-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 11:08pm

Welcome to the boards, not sure I've seen you here since I'm new within the year.

Love is love, go with the flow. I don't know why we have to package our love for others into categories. Man or woman, doesn't matter, it's the love that counts the most. I have two wonderful children because I went with love. Will never regret that. Good luck to you and live life to the fullest! My two cents worth....Bloke, love the accent, I have a bloke who I work with! lol

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