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Update..On My Son..
| Tue, 03-15-2005 - 1:11am |
Thanks to everyone for your posts of support and caring today/last night whenever you posted them.. I am tired right now, but will fill you in best I can..
Son got back in okay last night..Thank heavens...
I stayed up with him an hour longer and convinced him he and I needed rest as I had work

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Hey cats guess what? Sweetfeets' picture was on the front page of the local paper (town he lives in) this past Saturday. My ex bought an exta issue for me to buy off of him. It's the first time I've seen his face in over two months, and he is smiling and happy. I am alomst to the point where I will let him go if I know for sure that he really is happy. I dream of him every night, different dreams, but all with that wierd feeling - somewhere in the back of my mind I am aware that us being together is not possible, yet here we are. God I miss his arms around me! How can some parents leave thier children behind without an ounce of remorse? I cannot even have a healthy relationship, because I always see the woman I'm with as "the reason" I cannot see my son.
Why do I not find that surprizing!!!
C >^. A .
Sandra
Sandr
The only reason you are not with sweetfeets is because your ex is not allowing it to be. It is his way of controlling the situation and he proves that by making you "PAY" for the paper to see sweetfeets!
He is using sweetfeets as a hostage to controll you.
Now, on the flip side, I can see a son being happy living with his Dad too, if he has to live with one or the other. It does not mean he will love you less.
It is just in cat's case, the father is mean. If sweetfeets father treats him well, he will be happy and you can see him on visits which I know is not the same...but in a divorce the kids have to live with only on parent. Like a home base.
My parents were divorced and we lived with our Mom, but we were able to see Dad too. It was always special because he would come and take us out and we had a lot of fun with him.
We were happy and loved both of our parents just as much. They explained to us that no matter what they were always our parents and loved us more than everything.
It is not because of who you are Beth, or who you are with. It is because your husband chooses to be a TOS.
Hopefully he will mellow out in time.
Laurie
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Now I know my situation is different because my Son is older but alot of the feelings in all of this are the same.
My son has chosen to live with his Dad. At almost 14 I certainly didnt think it was my place to try and 'make' him be with Mom.
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