After eight months...

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After eight months...
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Tue, 03-15-2005 - 2:11pm

After eight months of waiting for Ashley for make a decision about what she really wants; it looks as though she has.

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Wed, 03-16-2005 - 8:46am
Yeah, WOW! I know you are hurting but you have to do what is right for you! Nothing else matters if you arent happy. Go through your "mourning" and then find the "Ms. Right" you need! If you do breakaway from her you may find yourself to be more willing to shop around. Trust me, I know it is hard but you already know she isnt the "one" or you wouldnt be posting! Your "one" is out there waiting for you. Good luck and much much hugs!
Mandi
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Wed, 03-16-2005 - 10:19am
I think that you are probably right Cat, and I agree with your advice.

Scarlett
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Wed, 03-16-2005 - 3:48pm

I think Cat made some very good points and I am glad you feel like you have a plan to follow. I wish you luck as you take this time and find what (and who) is right for you.

Jules

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Sat, 03-19-2005 - 8:00am

Hey Scarlette Hon... How's


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Sun, 03-20-2005 - 12:55pm

Cat,

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Sun, 03-20-2005 - 2:54pm
Wow Scarlette.. It seems to get more and more confusing doesn't it?
Thanks for the concern about my Son.. Will keep it updated as I hear something..Although he hasn't called me for long talks in the middle of the night what?about 3 nights now..so I am hope-ing he's sleeping.. I would think if he's having bad feelings he'de be calling as he has before..
Well now.. about Ashley.. Yes I suppose caring for her because she has been there for you is a consideration.. also as I said if one really loves someone, the love and concern doesn't halt just because they are going their own ways..
But, now she's thinking of working things out with Kelly again?... Is that what you are saying? Cause I thought Kelly told her there was no chance, it was over?.
If Ashley is still seeking after Kelly then perhaps she truely is going to not give that up and perhaps you should go out and make yourself available.. I'll bet you are attractive and eyes do check you out.....Attractiveness comes in many forms not just what we see as physical looks so if your thinking it's not your physical thats getting the looks then it's probably your charisma or some other feature, but if your not seeing it, maybe it's just cause your so tied up with Ashley and all thats going on...Take your friend's word for it.....
You might just strike up with someone who is more... well... in the frame of mind as to what they want in life....
Ashley wanting you or fearing to lose you is sounding like she does want her cake and eat it too...
In that case what can she expect? You do deserve to be happy.. I think your making the right choice to hold off any intimate stuff and just try to be there for her as a friend but, don't get walked on either..
I do wish you luck in this Hon..
Keep us posted if you feel like it of course..
(((((Hugs Hon))))))

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