The more I hear of your ex, the more I could just go there myself and give him a piece of my mind and distract him while you take the son's out. I can't believe he has to put you on speaker phone and even control you phone conversations. Maybe so will open up to counselors about what he is really like and then something will be done about him. Well, I keep praying for this situation to resolve in the best way for you and son's. It will be a good thing to get son the cell phone. It might make him feel better just knowing it is there. Thanks for the update Lee. I now that you are doing everything that you can.
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I'm definately sending you lots of positive vibes and prayers! You might be surprised how often I send you and your family positive vibes. It's automatic. You don't have to ask me. :)
You are a strong lady CAT. You should be so proud of yourself!
I think I can relate to that in some way Cat. If sweetfeets were older, he would have more control over his own life and have some say so in matters concerning him.
I'm so sorry that your ex is being such a pain in the butt about the retreat, that sounds like a wonderful program for your son.
And, even if you have to talk to your son on speaker phone (for now), I am glad that you're at least talking to him. Every little bit helps!
((((((((((Cat)))))))))))) You are so incredibly strong. I have a feeling that as soon as your DS feels comfortable, he will find a way to come be with you. From what you write, the bond between you two just keeps growing ever closer. Sending many positive vibes your way and hugs to ~S~ too. She's one incredible woman!
I can't believe he has to put you on speaker phone and even control you phone conversations.
Maybe so will open up to counselors about what he is really like and then something will be done about him.
Well, I keep praying for this situation to resolve in the best way for you and son's.
It will be a good thing to get son the cell phone. It might make him feel better just knowing it is there.
Thanks for the update Lee. I now that you are doing everything that you can.
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I'm definately sending you lots of positive vibes and prayers! You might be surprised how often I send you and your family positive vibes. It's automatic. You don't have to ask me. :)
You are a strong lady CAT. You should be so proud of yourself!
Hugs to you, ~S~, and both of your sons!
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I think I can relate to that in some way Cat. If sweetfeets were older, he would have more control over his own life and have some say so in matters concerning him.
I'm so sorry that your ex is being such a pain in the butt about the retreat, that sounds like a wonderful program for your son.
And, even if you have to talk to your son on speaker phone (for now), I am glad that you're at least talking to him. Every little bit helps!
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Your son's crisis is the best thing that could have happened for both of you.
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((((((((((Cat)))))))))))) You are so incredibly strong. I have a feeling that as soon as your DS feels comfortable, he will find a way to come be with you. From what you write, the bond between you two just keeps growing ever closer. Sending many positive vibes your way and hugs to ~S~ too. She's one incredible woman!
Hugs,