Having a moment of regret

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Having a moment of regret
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Tue, 03-29-2005 - 2:12pm

I just spoke to XH.

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Tue, 03-29-2005 - 6:13pm

(((((Scarlett))))) There are times, through all of the hateful and

 

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 9:45pm

(((((Scarlette))) Sadie's


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Tue, 03-29-2005 - 10:06pm

(((((Scarlet)))))


Your XH is going through the grief process: anger, denial, sadness, and acceptance.

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Tue, 03-29-2005 - 11:06pm
You guys are really great.

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Wed, 03-30-2005 - 3:09am
And it is okay Scarlett,
You have all of our support. My parents have found a way to be ok with each other over the years which makes family times very nice. And sometimes my sister and I just split up and for example this Easter my sister spent time with our Dad and I spent time with our Mom so neither one would be alone or without one of their daughters.
Sometimes we spend special occasions or holidays all together too, with both extended families. That is really nice too.
It will work out in time. It really has not been very long for the two of you.
He needs time to heal.
It is sweet that you care.
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Wed, 03-30-2005 - 7:19am

Some days it seems like this process will never end. I'm dealing with it with XH myself.


Hugs,


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Wed, 03-30-2005 - 7:21am

((((((((Scarlett)))))))))))) Feel free to email me any time through my profile. I'm experiencing the same ups and downs myself these days.


Hugs,


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Wed, 03-30-2005 - 8:58am

(((((( Scarlett ))))))


I can relate sooooo much, that's why I havn't posted. Mine is actting the same way and I'm confused as Heck. The divorce 'should' be over the begining of May. I wish it was over NOW.


Hug,

Robin

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Wed, 03-30-2005 - 4:43pm

Ting, You have mail.

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Wed, 03-30-2005 - 5:17pm

Scarlett,


Like the others who have responded, I too went through this with my EX.

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