Party Girl

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Registered: 08-01-2004
Party Girl
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Fri, 04-01-2005 - 1:19pm

I guess I am turning into a "Party Girl"! I feel very guilty, actually.

Yesterday we went to Jami's class (the one that is 40 min away), then out for dinner and margaritas. Jami had to go coach her daughter's volleyball team. I went w/ Ann and Christy, who is moving, to a small bar in a small town where Christy lives (closer to us). It was fun, but I kept thinking, "I wonder if Jami will meet us here after volleyball?"
We called and she really wanted to go to the bar where her DH plays poker. So we ended up going there and we stayed until 1 am. ON a school night! I just feel really bad. I didn't last night- I was having too much fun!

Ann's husband went off on her when she got home. He called her a drunk and a party girl. I am just waiting for mine to go off too, but he has been so cool about it! I should probably settle down. :(

Jami's DH was trashed when we got there and he hugged me and said he was mad at me because I told her a secret he had told me. He brought it up again and again and said he couldn't trust me anymore and he loves me but he didn't want to talk to me again after she told him! He said he'd give me ONE more chance!! I told him not to tell me anything if he doesn't want Jami to know because she's one of my best friends.
Then he said, "Jami told me you like girls!" She had told him everything! But he wasn't even mad about that! He was more mad that I told his "secret" (which was, IMO, a huge lie anyway). I guess he doesn't feel threatened by me because he knows she is not gay.

I've been doing really well at keeping my thoughts away from her, but last night, I was feeling drawn to her again. She had on the softest fleece jacket and I kept leaning on her chair. She got up once and rubbed my shoulders- OHHHHHH.... She had on shorts and her legs are so dang sexy! I just had to keep reminding myself that I don't want to set myself up for the pain of rejection again.

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 7:51pm
Wow brownie,
Talk about torturing yourself, lol. Did she tell her husband that she is a girl you like?
You should probably not go swimming with her, talk about torture!
Glad DH is being so cool.
Maybe you can spend some quality time with him for a bit.
Thanks for the update Miss Party Girl!
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Registered: 10-01-2003
Sun, 04-03-2005 - 4:42am

Okay, I know this exposes my opinion of men.. but here goes anyway. ( Better I'm wrong than Brownie unwarned. )


I see Jamie's husband pushing for a threesome in the future. I don't know how you'd feel about this, Brownie.. but I think it's worth consideration. If you believe Jamie's NOT gay, you don't want to go there, right?


Just my .02 .. lol ... this keyboard doesn't have a 'cent' character...
*hugs* ~ Nony

 

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Registered: 08-01-2004
Sun, 04-03-2005 - 2:18pm

OH, yes, this was mentioned!!!! I told him, though, it would NOT be me and her on him, it would be him and me on HER!!!! He also said if we ever did anything it's OK as long as he can watch!!! I know it will not happen because 1. She is not gay and 2. I would not cheat on my husband, 3. I have heard that when people try stuff like this it ruins the friendship because you can never go back to how it was before....

By the way, went to dinner w/ her last night (and a group) and the top she wore... OH WOW!! She may as well have not even worn anything. I had to force myself not to look.

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