Everything is all gone wrong!..

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Everything is all gone wrong!..
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 9:06pm
I am crying so hard... I can't call son any more.. His father has said I am a

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 9:50pm

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Cat}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Those hugs are for you, I'm sending angels of comfort and peace to you Cat. I'm really, really sorry that you're going through this. I know S is there to hold you and comfort you, but I wish I was there to hold you right now.

Mutiple hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 9:59pm
No she's not gigi.. She's at work and although I put up a front so she wouldn't worry I now have been crying so much.. I never wanted to cry like this again but that horrible person had his way again..

((((Hugs))))


 C  >^. A .

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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 10:06pm

Cat, please let S hold you. I couldn't image the pain and anguish that you're going through, but you're not a bad person, or anything else that this jerk has said about you, please understand that you have a lot of beauty inside of you.

I really wish I was there to wipe the tears away, but I know that I can't. But you do have my thoughts and prayers.

Multiple hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 10:38pm

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}


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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 10:44pm

(((((( Kitty Kat ))))))


(((((( Kitty Kat ))))))


(((((( Kitty Kat ))))))


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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 10:47pm
Dear Cat
I just popped by to see how everyone was doing... oh sweet, dear, gentle Cat, I am so terribly sorry for all the pain you are in right now.. I am sending up prayers and sending you my warmest HUGS. Much love - Pooh Bear
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 10:58pm

Hi Cat,


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Registered: 09-29-2003
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 11:11pm
I went to Vt. this morn to drive son to Therapist as I have been doing.. S stayed home..
Ex came in car with Son and I and we got to therapist.. Son seemed okay up til then.. Last time I was with Son he cryed and told me he was hurting inside for me and for all the years I and him had to lose because of his father.. He said I was a good person and didn't deserve all that happened

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 04-03-2005
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 11:27pm

Cat,


I am so sorry for the big blowout.

Kathryn (formerly Scarletter)
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Registered: 11-29-2004
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 11:31pm

Cat,

I'm so sorry to hear things have taken a turn for the worse. Please be strong and know that the lies your ex is spinning to your son, will not last for long. Your son is confused and torn now, and his father wants to pin the blame on you. When your son needs someone and your ex isn't there for him, he will see and know the truth. I always told my ex that I was not going to cover for him anymore, and his children would see him for who he trully is. I tried so hard to not let the children know about our relationship and why it went sour. My ex tried his best to discredit me with my children, and it didn't work!

Give this time, your son will see the light and he will need you to be there in the future. You've done a great job getting him to the counselor. Call her and try to arrange a meeting of the minds with ex, you and her. This is a big issue that needs to be taken care of immediately. Both of you need to work this out for your son. Sounds like your ex might have an idea about your life style, and the only way to find out is with a meeting. At least you will know what direction you should take!

Thoughts and prayers for you...

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