I am so sorry you are going through all this. I really hope and pray everything gets better for you guys. I am sorry I cant do more for you. hugs, Mandi
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Cat}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I am so sorry that you are going through this. If there was a way that you could call me, so I could hear your voice, and you hear mine, I wouldn't feel like I can't get to you. Even though you have a girlfriend I do love and care about you. Thank you for sharing that, it helps to shed a little light on what's going on.
You haven't done anything wrong, you have left the doors of communication open to your son, and your ex is using him as a weapon to try to get you back. I know that you're not going back to him, and you like your life as it is. Please hold on.
It's obvious that your son does like S, and is happy while in her company, all that I could see is your ex is maniupating your son's feelings for you and you at the same time.
Of course, that's just my opinion. I really hope I helped with those thoughts and opinions.
((((((((Cat)))))))))) You have a marvelous ability to look inside yourself and figure out what's going on. I see that keeping you going. I understand your feelings about your ex. It's easy to get caught up in the dysfunction of a relationship and let it become the norm because it's all you
Cat, this is so true. You always have this to come back to and read if you ever feel down about this. You can read it many times until you have to come back less and less each time. I believe in you Lee. You have done your best! The ball is in the court of the men in your life. I hope the dust will settle soon. xoxoxoxo
Hugs,
Laurie
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Oh Cat, I am so sad to come to the board and read this. With things going as wonderfully as they were, it's heart-breaking to see them fall backwards. But I do imagine this is just a temporary set-back. There is no way your son has forgotten (or could forget) all you have done for him...all the love you have for him...all the unconditional support. Just hang in there. He'll be back in touch with you. I feel certain he knows you will be there no matter what. You have proven that to him. Trust in the relationship you've had up to this point. I know that doesn't make it any easier or less painful to go through this particular stage, but just try to keep the faith. I hope and pray that the tide will turn again very soon.
Thanks Jules.. I am trying..but it is not easy.. I can't seem to shake the blues and I keep trying.. Each day I push on trying to think happy thoughts and every
Oh Cat hun I'm so sorry. Sending all the hugs of all the angels to you right now. And mine too. Please don't let him make think you're a terrible person. It's just another manipulative tactic to get under your skin and hurt you. I'm so sorry that people in this world can be so selfish and thoughtless. Hugs and HUGS AND MORE HUGS Cat. Let S be there for you. She can be the bulwark you need right now Hon.
Thanks Lafaye~ all the (((Hugs)))and angels I can get *Smiles.... sure makes it feel more like it's going to change for the better again one day.. ((((((Hugs))))))
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hugs, Mandi
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Cat}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I am so sorry that you are going through this. If there was a way that you could call me, so I could hear your voice, and you hear mine, I wouldn't feel like I can't get to you. Even though you have a girlfriend I do love and care about you. Thank you for sharing that, it helps to shed a little light on what's going on.
You haven't done anything wrong, you have left the doors of communication open to your son, and your ex is using him as a weapon to try to get you back. I know that you're not going back to him, and you like your life as it is. Please hold on.
It's obvious that your son does like S, and is happy while in her company, all that I could see is your ex is maniupating your son's feelings for you and you at the same time.
Of course, that's just my opinion. I really hope I helped with those thoughts and opinions.
hugs!
Hugs,
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((((((((Cat)))))))))) You have a marvelous ability to look inside yourself and figure out what's going on. I see that keeping you going. I understand your feelings about your ex. It's easy to get caught up in the dysfunction of a relationship and let it become the norm because it's all you
You can read it many times until you have to come back less and less each time.
I believe in you Lee. You have done your best!
The ball is in the court of the men in your life.
I hope the dust will settle soon.
xoxoxoxo
Laurie
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Your welcome Cat, and if you haven't already, take a look at my poem down in the writer's nook, I hope that you like it.
Hugs!
Hugs,
Sebastian
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Oh Cat, I am so sad to come to the board and read this. With things going as wonderfully as they were, it's heart-breaking to see them fall backwards. But I do imagine this is just a temporary set-back. There is no way your son has forgotten (or could forget) all you have done for him...all the love you have for him...all the unconditional support. Just hang in there. He'll be back in touch with you. I feel certain he knows you will be there no matter what. You have proven that to him. Trust in the relationship you've had up to this point. I know that doesn't make it any easier or less painful to go through this particular stage, but just try to keep the faith. I hope and pray that the tide will turn again very soon.
Hugs,
Jules
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Oh Cat hun I'm so sorry. Sending all the hugs of all the angels to you right now. And mine too. Please don't let him make think you're a terrible person. It's just another manipulative tactic to get under your skin and hurt you. I'm so sorry that people in this world can be so selfish and thoughtless. Hugs and HUGS AND MORE HUGS Cat. Let S be there for you. She can be the bulwark you need right now Hon.
Hugs truly,
Lafaye
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