Everything is all gone wrong!..

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Everything is all gone wrong!..
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 9:06pm
I am crying so hard... I can't call son any more.. His father has said I am a

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 01-09-2005
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 10:43pm

Many heart felt hugs to you today. Be strong as you can. I know it is hard as you want to take him into your arms and protect him from all the bad things in this world. He knows you love him. He is being forced to choose by someone mean and evil. When you do talk to him, share your love and support, comfort and unconditional love no matter what. he will see one day. Can you give him music? If so find some positive, motivational music, or something soothing he can listen to at night to bring about the peace he needs to sleep. He is part of you, teach him the good can prevail. Love is strong.


Sending you both loving and healing angels tonight.

 

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 11:04pm
Thanks (((Lea))) for you caring thoughts and words and ((((Hugs))))
No Hon.. I can't send him any thing now.. Been cut off again by his father.. Son will not even call now or im with me..
I do not have any hard feelings towards him about that though,

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 08-01-2004
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 10:26am
How can your husband cut you off from your own children? Has he threatened you? That is just not right! I wish you'd get a lawyer and get joint custody or at least visitation... This has got to be driving you nuts!
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Registered: 01-31-2005
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 10:41am

I can't speak for Cat because I don't know any of the particulars of her split with her ex, but depending on the factors involved, custody issues can be VERY complicated in divorces involving homosexuality. Also, some states and judges are a lot more conservative than others and that has an impact on who gains custody. It's sad but true unfortunately.


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