Oh Kathyrn, I am so very sorry you are hurting so much. I remember all too well what that place is like - I think you are wise though for taking the time to sort things out. I can promise you that time will make the pain ease.. though I know right now it doesn't seem like it. Keep coming here and leaning on us - that's how I made it through - this wonderful community of women who love you and always have their arms open wide. Sending Gigantic hugs and prayers. - Much love - Pooh Bear
((((Heatfelt Hugs Kathryn Scarlette)))))Hey thats pretty name isn't it? Kathryn Scarlette... Having to pull away from or having someone pulled away from you all in all can be so terribly painful.. Yes I know ..I know the sick stomache the heart hurting.. Life is not easy huh Hon ? at times.. We are here for ya.. Glad you can come here and share and hey (no!), not sick of hearing about it.. Share... Vent ...whenever you need.......I had another post in the making in my mind about something I experienced this morn upon waking.. Maybe I'll post it.. ((((((Hugs Hon))))))
Kathryn, I'm sorry sweetie, I know that this hurts. But, friends that occasionally see eachother is better than not seeing one another at all. Try and look at the positives. The best relationships are formed through friendship. Apparently Ashley needs some space, and you love her enough to give her what she needs. That is a huge plus for you. Love hurts sometimes. ((((((((((Kathryn)))))))))))) Hugs, Sandra
((((((((Kathryn))))))))) I know this will be very hard, but perhaps it's best for now. Hopefully, Ashley will take this time to herself to finally figure out what she wants to do.
Ouch! That does sound painfull. Would it be better if she just stayed away until she made a decision? Maybe she just really needs to get over the guilt from leaving her family. Maybe she is only not letting go because of the guilt and compasion, while she is really wanting to be with you. She must be going through so many emotions too. I hope this works for you, but try not to let your heart open to wide incase she decides to either go back or keep playing it this way between both of you as long as she can get away with it.
Do not think we are tired of hearing your story. This board is always here for you.
Please be careful with this woman, guard your heart, she is going through alot too. So try not to expect to much then you won't set yourself up for to much hurting. Take care of you Kathryn.
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My heart aches with you tonight, as I understand what your feeling.
Many hugs to you. I am really at a loss for words, as I
Thank you Lea and my heart goes out to you during your painful time as well.
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Having to pull away from or having someone pulled away from you all in all can be so terribly painful.. Yes I know ..I know the sick stomache the heart hurting..
Life is not easy huh Hon ? at times..
We are here for ya.. Glad you can come here and share and hey (no!), not sick of hearing about it..
Share... Vent ...whenever you need.......I had another post in the making in my mind about something I experienced this morn upon waking.. Maybe I'll post it..
((((((Hugs Hon))))))
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I'm sorry sweetie, I know that this hurts. But, friends that occasionally see eachother is better than not seeing one another at all. Try and look at the positives. The best relationships are formed through friendship. Apparently Ashley needs some space, and you love her enough to give her what she needs. That is a huge plus for you.
Love hurts sometimes. ((((((((((Kathryn))))))))))))
Hugs, Sandra
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Ouch! That does sound painfull.
Would it be better if she just stayed away until she made a decision?
Maybe she just really needs to get over the guilt from leaving her family.
Maybe she is only not letting go because of the guilt and compasion, while she is really wanting to be with you. She must be going through so many emotions too.
I hope this works for you, but try not to let your heart open to wide incase she decides to either go back or keep playing it this way between both of you as long as she can get away with it.
Do not think we are tired of hearing your story. This board is always here for you.
Please be careful with this woman, guard your heart, she is going through alot too. So try not to expect to much then you won't set yourself up for to much hurting.
Take care of you Kathryn.
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