What a night! Lots of stuff to report, but I got a little league game at 9 in the morning and my head is still spinning from all that has transpired over the past 5 hours. So I'm off to bed. I will blog it
So, you went to see The Dixie Chicks? Did you like it?
I understand what you mean. I've had the same issues. After 10 years of having no one to do anything with, I'm getting a bit desparate. Well, it hasn't been 10 years straight. I had some friends in between. One was a female. When her husband found out I was gay, well, he wouldn't let her see me anymore.
You know, I don't even know the guy's name! I see him in the sauna. Last night I saw him. He asked if I wanted to go dancing last night. But, I was too tired, plus I had homework too. I guess I should find out his name. LOL He knows mine.
I don't know whether I should tell him I'm gay or just say I'm not interested in dating someone right now. The later has never worked for me. I've told a guy before that I just wanted to be friends and wasn't interested in dating and he still asked me to be his girlfriend. But, if I tell him I'm gay, then I have to fear him telling everyone at the Y. I'm not really interested in everyone knowing. And, maybe it wouldn't matter if everyone did know. I guess it is the fear of the unknown- you know. Not knowing how people would react. I have what I call sauna buddies. We see each other only in the sauna. The time in the sauna is valuable to me. I fear losing the support I have now if they knew. Then again, they may not care.
I understand totally ((((Bug)))about telling him.. I wouldn't tell him right yet.. I mean really it's not for him to know at this time.. You could say you just aren't interested in dating but like you said he may still pursue you, then again if you get to know each other better he may want to know why you said you weren't interested in dating, but it's not a lie really.. Your just not adding that your not
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Thanks y'all!
What a night! Lots of stuff to report, but I got a little league game at 9 in the morning and my head is still spinning from all that has transpired over the past 5 hours. So I'm off to bed. I will blog it
What happy news, Sadie! I can't wait to hear...well, read....all about it!
Jules
Jules
Can't wait to read all about it !
I'm petrified to start dating, I havn't had a 'date' in 17 years.
Hugs,
Robin
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Okay it's pass afternoon. It's time to spill the beans.
Angel
P.S. Don't leave all the good parts out either.
So, you went to see The Dixie Chicks? Did you like it?
I understand what you mean. I've had the same issues. After 10 years of having no one to do anything with, I'm getting a bit desparate. Well, it hasn't been 10 years straight. I had some friends in between. One was a female. When her husband found out I was gay, well, he wouldn't let her see me anymore.
You know, I don't even know the guy's name! I see him in the sauna. Last night I saw him. He asked if I wanted to go dancing last night. But, I was too tired, plus I had homework too. I guess I should find out his name. LOL He knows mine.
I don't know whether I should tell him I'm gay or just say I'm not interested in dating someone right now. The later has never worked for me. I've told a guy before that I just wanted to be friends and wasn't interested in dating and he still asked me to be his girlfriend. But, if I tell him I'm gay, then I have to fear him telling everyone at the Y. I'm not really interested in everyone knowing. And, maybe it wouldn't matter if everyone did know. I guess it is the fear of the unknown- you know. Not knowing how people would react. I have what I call sauna buddies. We see each other only in the sauna. The time in the sauna is valuable to me. I fear losing the support I have now if they knew. Then again, they may not care.
Decisions...decisions!
Nice chatting with ya CAT!
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