Birthday party and wishes.....

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Registered: 01-23-2005
Birthday party and wishes.....
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Sat, 05-14-2005 - 10:51pm

I was invited to sweetfeet's b-day party at his dad's house today. Apparently he really wanted me to be there and xh was caring enough about his son's feelings to set aside our differences for once.


It was a very nice day, believe it or not, with xh's family. Main reason being that ex-mother-in-law could only stay for about 30 minutes. The rest of the family was very friendly with me, I had

 

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Registered: 06-24-2004
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 11:41am


It's really great that xh was able to set aside everything he feels and consider his child's feelings instead. Not may ex's will do that. I'm really glad that everybody seemed to be kind. It made so it wasn't as odd to you. I think that's why I never go to things when they are held by my children's father's (they make me fell unwanted). Shoot my ex's family made me feel unwanted when we were still married.

And about him sitting on your lap - my son is 14 and he still comes over and sits on my lap and spread kisses across my face.

Hope your son's wish comes true also.

Angel

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 2:33pm
Sound like a wonderful day.
I hope you took lots of pictures, just to show his kids when they're 8 yrs old and thinks they're too old to sits on Nana's lap. *SMILE*
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Registered: 10-01-2003
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 3:15am

This makes me cry and touches a similar, self-induced pain inside of me...


I'm really glad you went Sadie, that your xh was generous enough or observant enough to realize sweetfeets needed you there.


*hugs* ~ Nony

 

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Registered: 12-15-2004
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 9:19pm

I'm so glad you got to spend the day at his birthday. And I'm glad it wasn't uncomfortable for you. (Personally I can't imagine being around my in-laws without it being plain awful.) I do hope that his birthday wish comes true one day soon!

Jules

Jules

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Registered: 01-23-2005
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 11:09pm

Thankyou all for your kind words. I get a little choked up each time I click on this thread to see what everyone has posted, so forgive me for not responding to each of you individually. Just wanted y'all to know that I have read every reply and they mean more to me than you know.


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