Okay.. *Sigh..Not Going..

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Okay.. *Sigh..Not Going..
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Thu, 06-16-2005 - 10:18pm
Well.. Seems it has been taken care of.. My decision making..
I called this afternoon.. The school..Took my chances.. The lady I talked to said yes.. it was definately by invitation only..
So there we have it.. I obviously did not/will not get one so, I will have to just suck it up and go on.. This too.. I shall overcome..
I will still perserver.. I will still whisper prayers

 C  >^. A .

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Registered: 10-01-2003
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 4:33am

Oh (((( CAT )))) ! I am so sorry for the 'invitation only' stipulation.


Just remember, your kids know how much you love them. They will know, deep down inside, how much you will be wishing to be there, as you are during every day you all spend apart. Your sons love you too, and one day they will be old enough and independent enough to express that without reservation.


I'm thinking of you and willing you all my strength.
*many hugs* ~ Nony

 

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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 8:12am
Oh Cat...I'm so sorry.... I know the pain and heartache you feel must be overwhelming....

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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 9:02am

I'm so sorry Cat.

Kim
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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 9:58am


OH CAT!

I'm sitting at my desk with tears flowing down my cheeks. I feel for you so much. I just want to wrap my arms around you and sheild you from anymore hurt. I'm sure your son (s) will think of you. I wish so badly you could of went. But remember this isn't your children's doings. You have blame all this on your ex. Your children love you! And like your younger son did already (came to you)they both will come one day!

Stay strong!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

Sending a great big hug and kiss your way!!

Angel

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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 10:04am


Kim,

That's a wonderful idea. Nobody would even see her. She could at least be able to see him. If she knew early enough she could of sent him a present/flowers/anything. It's not fair. I just wish I could fix it all for her.

Angel

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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 10:13am
Once he is 18 his dad can no longer run his life. Ex cannot threaten you with taking him away from you. Your son is an adult now. I hope you can find a way to communicate with him and let him know why you have not been able to see him and that he is welcome to see you anytime.
I have no way of knowing just how painful this must be for you Lee. I can only imagine that it is the worst pain a person can feel at the moment.
I am hoping that you can find a way to be with your son/son's soon. I am sure that you were not invited due to your Ex's doing. That or you son is being poisened with lies about you from your Ex.
Here's hoping the angels will smile down upon you and help you through this rough time.
Love and hugs to you and ~S~ and son's.
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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 11:11am

Dear (((((Kitty Cat)))))


I am so sorry, that you cannot go - but I have to say I liked the idea of just being there.. I wish so much that I could give you a giant hug and have some magical way to make the pain and this whole ugly situation go way for you.

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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 11:37am

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Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 10:55pm

(((hugs Cat)))


Many thoughts and not enough words to express them.


Take your strength from the cat....land on your feet, hold your head high, don't be afraid. The day will come soon, and your boys will show you they love you..and everyone around you will be able to tell them how much they mean to you. Believe Cat!


Be blessed,


Lea