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Thu, 08-04-2005 - 10:55am

I am such an idiot.. right now, I hurt so much.. I as supposed to have dinner with my green eyed lady tonight.. she just Im'd me and if I would mind meeting the girl she is dating soon... I asked how soon and she said she could ask her to come to dinner tonight.... ok.. so my heart is breaking... I know its totally stupid.. but its how I feel right now.. and I sure could use some hugs.. she is not going to ask her thank Gawd.. but still...

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Registered: 11-29-2004
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 11:09am

Awwwwww Pooh, I'm so sorry that this is happening. Remember what we talked about with having her forever as a friend? I know how bad it hurts loving someone that can't be with you. (((((((((((((((((((((((((((Pooh))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Thu, 08-04-2005 - 11:14am

Boing... Boing.... Boing {{{{{{{{{Pooh}}}}}}} Boing..... Boing.....Boing..

 


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Sebastian


 


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Registered: 11-15-2004
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 12:16pm
I'm so sorry! *HUGS* I wish that I could fix your broken heart. I know that broken hearts hurt a lot. Please feel free to e-mail me through my profile if you ever want to talk or vent or anything. I am always here for you. You are a very sweet person, and I'm so sorry that you are hurting right now. I will do anything I possibly can to help. Love you! *HUGS*
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Registered: 02-16-2004
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 12:38pm

You know what Pooh, don't give up hope! The woman I am with now has been a very dear friend of mine for over 10 years. We just found each other 18 months ago. She was right in front of my face the whole time and I never knew it. It's all about the timing!! Be her friend for now, it's a great place to start!

Who knows, ( i'm being funny here no disrespect intended) maybe all three of you could get together! LOL ;-)

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Registered: 06-03-2005
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 12:44pm

((((((((((Pooh))))))))))

I'm so very sorry! Hang in there.

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Thu, 08-04-2005 - 1:50pm

((((((((((((( Pooh )))))))))))))


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Registered: 09-30-2003
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 2:02pm

Pooh, I'm so sorry to hear that you are feeling so blue about this latest development, hon.


But you know what? I want to throw a different spin on this...


Think of it this way. If she wants her 'date' to meet you, then it means you are becoming more important to her. So that's one positive in your favour.


And the fact that she's dating this woman at the moment, doesn't mean she's gonna be dating her forever, right? When the time does come that you have to do this, keep your chin up, sparkle, shine...let your green-eyed lady see what a gem you are. Let her see what a wonderful woman you are, Pooh...maybe it will lead you to places you would never expect?


Don't write your chances off just yet, chick. Things happen for a reason in this life, and there's no telling what might lie ahead for you. Make yourself irresistable ;)


sending you the biggest of hugs ~~~~


Loubie x

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Registered: 06-24-2004
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 2:44pm


Pooh,

Sending a giant hug to YOU!!! Don't be sad sometimes people don't know a good thing even if it's right in front of their faces. Hopefully she'll see that you have feelings for her that are more than just being friends. Sometimes time is all that is needed to work things out. Sending another giant hug, because I know how that feels.

LOL,
Angel

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 4:14pm

{{{{Pooh}}}}


I'm so sorry!


I'm sending you multiple hugs, one right after the other.


When you're feeling a little bit better, consider what some of the others have said. As a friend, you are in a position to be there after she is no longer dating this lady.


Jeanine

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Thu, 08-04-2005 - 4:56pm

ok pooh.....take it for what you will....but my physic friend told me the other night that I WILL meet Ms. right by the time/or when I am 33....so I have a few years left here of waiting....

she said that she will be a great friend right under my nose (see were I am going with this...green eyed lady under your nose) cause let's face it people normally are friends and right under our noses and we don't even see it...
and let's face it ....it is much better to date a best friend then a stranger....even though the loss is twice as bad...and well you know that this gf of the green eyed lady may in fact be deciving her...I would hate for anyone to get hurt ....
but you know what is going on....
you should meet her gf with her head held high....

in the mean time....me and a few female friends...one gay...one who knows and one straight are going to the gay club in smithfield sat. night around 10:30...you should come...I'll give you directions....we can meet,hang out,shoot pool and look/talk to ladies all night and well if nothing else you can relax...

anyways ,you can call my cell or text me.....and things will get better.....Jo

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