I need you guys!!

Avatar for poohntgr0163
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-28-2003
I need you guys!!
14
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 10:55am

I am such an idiot.. right now, I hurt so much.. I as supposed to have dinner with my green eyed lady tonight.. she just Im'd me and if I would mind meeting the girl she is dating soon... I asked how soon and she said she could ask her to come to dinner tonight.... ok.. so my heart is breaking... I know its totally stupid.. but its how I feel right now.. and I sure could use some hugs.. she is not going to ask her thank Gawd.. but still...

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2003
Fri, 08-05-2005 - 12:49am
I am such an idiot..

You certainly are not!!!~ You are a

 C  >^. A .

Avatar for mschiffven
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-25-2003
Fri, 08-05-2005 - 4:23am

I haven't caught up with any earlier posts I guess you've made about this but I am guessing you had the hots for this one and had no idea there was another involved? And she didnt give you a clue? Dont it seem sometimes that the heart goes off in some strange directions and it forgets to take the head along?!

I hate to hear you feeling bad but we live and learn- in this situation I would go out and buy something specifically to break it. I feel a lot better when I have broken things but I have learned not to break things I need...

You take care of yourself ok?


visit my web site

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-04-2005
Fri, 08-05-2005 - 1:36pm
Awwwww pooh,
I think all of the ladies have given you such great advice here. I hope the dinner went well. What made her decide not to ask her date along? Did she sense it might hurt you right now? She obviosly seems to care about you.
I think everyone is right on about continuing to be her friend right now.
You could start looking for all her flaws, lol. Kidding.
I think you should remain friends. Maybe eventually your feelings will subside or you will grow to be very loving friends or she will lose this other woman and see that you are the one. Who knows?
Hugs,
Laurie
Check out my new blog.
co-cl of Lesbian Life Message Board
Email- didoangst@comcast.net
http://didoangst.blogspot.com/
http://homepage.mac.com/lauriedav/PhotoAlbum1.html
Hugs, Laurie Check out my new blog. co-cl of Lesbian Life Message Board Email- didoangst@comcast.net http://didoangst.blogspot.com/ http://www.4-lesbianlife.com/
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2005
Sun, 08-07-2005 - 11:59am

Pooh,


I am sorry you are in pain.

Carol,  In love with the most beautiful woman in the world.

Pages