I was thinking about....
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| Mon, 08-08-2005 - 4:04pm |
I was thinking about another conversation that had taken place during the last chat, last Sunday. The question was asked about a potential partners body language. I thought about it for a while, and I could only come up with this. Of course, everyone else can add on.
In my opinion, if I was interested in a woman, I would turn my body towards her, look at her and smile a lot. If I were talking to her, I would get closer, but not so close that I'm invading her personal space. And if I were allowed to, I would touch her hand, or her shoulder to show her that I was interested.
But I know for myself, if we were out drinking some type of beverage, I would make sure that whatever I was drinking was to the side, and not blocking us. That way, I would leave some open available space between the two of us. If we were sitting in a movie theatre watching a movie, I would cross my legs in a figure 4 with the open part of the figure facing her, or if we were talking with friends, I would move closer to her, as if protecting her.
If anyone has any other thoughts, please feel free to add.
Thanks and have fun!

Well, I guess, I sort of covered it all. Oh well, thanks.
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
It sounds wonderful!
Especially since the lady I like has done all of the above with me :)
Jeanine
Thanks Jeanine!
I've always wanted to know what is means to actually do some non-verbal communication with a woman that I found attractive. That's why I like this community, you get to bounce ideas around, and get different perspectives.
Hugs!
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
It feels to me like this woman and I are building a whole relationship on non-verbal communication, LOL!
I have decided to let the sexy part of it remain non-verbal until she seems ready to talk about it.
But my intention is to infuse the friendship part with an exceptional amount of tenderness and connection, to lay the foundation for what will come when we are both ready. That plan is working fairly well--she is good at both of those things--better than I am!
Jeanine
I can agree about building and a relationship through body language. I love to let my new partner know that I find her attractive. Of course, being able to control anything beyond that is going to take some work. LOL!
Thanks.
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce