Cat, I don't care if she buys you the entire electronic dept at Walmart, she's wrong! If she was having so many problems from the past why is she now throwing it in your face? ...and doing things in front of the people at her work....
She's showing off,she's trying to make herself look good. Before, she had to hide and keep things secret from the people outside of your apartment, and not to mention she's trying to score brownie points. Even though I do disagree with having someone follow her, I can't help but wanting to know myself.
I wouldn't want to hear a word that she had to say. Not one. Believe me, she's not worth leaving this world for. Again, my opinion, why don't you go to someone's home and stay there so you can get your thoughts together, and you don't have her in your face trying to "show" that she has this sudden devotion to you. Because all she's trying to do is to confuse you, and make you feel bad at the same time. Of course, she's trying to cover something. Why would she do the supposed "together" things. She didn't want to do anything together with you before, so why now? Your issues of therapy are your own issues to take care of, not hers. If she would stop taking the focus off of you and start focussing on the wrong things that she doing, maybe she will realize that she's wrong for playing games.
This won't get resolved until ~S~ stops what she's doing, and getting real with herself and tell you the real truth. But the both of you need to away from each other. Plan and simple. That means, you have to stay away from her, and not have her followed. That's all I have to suggest at this time.
Cat, I kind of agree that maybe getting out for a few days or whatever you need maybe would help....I am really concerned....I hope you are in contact with someone right now,rather it be laurie or whoever.....you know that everyone on this board loves you and well I pray to god you can rise above this whole situation....I'm sorry I missed your post before it was edited...take care cat...take care of you....with love and hugs,Jo
You are a dear person. You know what? You are right about wondering why you would deserve this. You don't deserve this pain. You don't deserve these circumstances.
I wish that I had some sort of super power like Superman. I guess that would make me Superwoman! What would my name be? It couldn't be Clark Kent. With one swoop, I would take away all your pain and change the situation to one of good. Aren't the movies great? But, that isn't real life. And, I'm not Superwoman. And, all my good intentions aren't going to take your hurt away. But, what I can do is be your friend. That's something I very much enjoy.
I read your post before you deleted it. I had a dream that awakened me early in the morning. Since Friday is a vacation day for me, I got up for a moment and decided to check out the board. There wasn't anything wrong with your post. It is understandable for you to feel what you are feeling. It is okay for you to question things.
Hey kitty cat. I'm sorry that I missed your post, but if you felt the need to remove it that's okay.
I echo everyone else in that you should take some time away. Do you have any vacation time accumulated at work? Could you possibly visit your family? Brothers? If not, at least find a good friend you can crash with for awhile. Let yourself rediscover who you are beyond your relationship with ~S.
((((((Hugs Beth))))) No I don't mind at all.. I am in a tizzy over so many posts.. although so very wonderful ..This spot and all you out here are so caring.. I did delete it and I did have reasons that I thought it would be better that I did.. I am okay though and
(((((((((gigi))))))))))I want you to know I have read all the posts you have posted so far and a lot of the other posters posts..Say that three times fast LOL.. I just have been so overwhelmed
You're welcome, Cat. I just don't like my friends to be hurt. I know that you have a mind of your own, just remember that I do care about you. I do trust your judgement, and I know that you can come out of this a stronger woman. I know that you prefer talking with Laurie, but I'm here also.
I do have you in my thoughts and prayers, Angel does also.
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Cat, I don't care if she buys you the entire electronic dept at Walmart, she's wrong! If she was having so many problems from the past why is she now throwing it in your face?
...and doing things in front of the people at her work....
She's showing off,she's trying to make herself look good. Before, she had to hide and keep things secret from the people outside of your apartment, and not to mention she's trying to score brownie points. Even though I do disagree with having someone follow her, I can't help but wanting to know myself.
I wouldn't want to hear a word that she had to say. Not one. Believe me, she's not worth leaving this world for. Again, my opinion, why don't you go to someone's home and stay there so you can get your thoughts together, and you don't have her in your face trying to "show" that she has this sudden devotion to you. Because all she's trying to do is to confuse you, and make you feel bad at the same time. Of course, she's trying to cover something. Why would she do the supposed "together" things. She didn't want to do anything together with you before, so why now? Your issues of therapy are your own issues to take care of, not hers. If she would stop taking the focus off of you and start focussing on the wrong things that she doing, maybe she will realize that she's wrong for playing games.
This won't get resolved until ~S~ stops what she's doing, and getting real with herself and tell you the real truth. But the both of you need to away from each other. Plan and simple. That means, you have to stay away from her, and not have her followed. That's all I have to suggest at this time.
Hugs!
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
I kind of agree that maybe getting out for a few days or whatever you need maybe would help....I am really concerned....I hope you are in contact with someone right now,rather it be laurie or whoever.....you know that everyone on this board loves you and well I pray to god you can rise above this whole situation....I'm sorry I missed your post before it was edited...take care cat...take care of you....with love and hugs,Jo
Hi CAT,
You are a dear person. You know what? You are right about wondering why you would deserve this. You don't deserve this pain. You don't deserve these circumstances.
I wish that I had some sort of super power like Superman. I guess that would make me Superwoman! What would my name be? It couldn't be Clark Kent. With one swoop, I would take away all your pain and change the situation to one of good. Aren't the movies great? But, that isn't real life. And, I'm not Superwoman. And, all my good intentions aren't going to take your hurt away. But, what I can do is be your friend. That's something I very much enjoy.
I read your post before you deleted it. I had a dream that awakened me early in the morning. Since Friday is a vacation day for me, I got up for a moment and decided to check out the board. There wasn't anything wrong with your post. It is understandable for you to feel what you are feeling. It is okay for you to question things.
((((((((((CAT))))))))))))
Hey kitty cat. I'm sorry that I missed your post, but if you felt the need to remove it that's okay.
I echo everyone else in that you should take some time away. Do you have any vacation time accumulated at work? Could you possibly visit your family? Brothers? If not, at least find a good friend you can crash with for awhile. Let yourself rediscover who you are beyond your relationship with ~S.
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I did delete it and I did have reasons that I thought it would be better that I did..
I am okay though and
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You're welcome, Cat. I just don't like my friends to be hurt. I know that you have a mind of your own, just remember that I do care about you. I do trust your judgement, and I know that you can come out of this a stronger woman. I know that you prefer talking with Laurie, but I'm here also.
I do have you in my thoughts and prayers, Angel does also.
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Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
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