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I've got to be the stupidest thing ...
| Sat, 08-13-2005 - 3:37pm |
Just a warning, this is going to be a crying-venting-ramble of a post.
I've got to be stupidest thing put on earth. Everytime someone says they " love me " there's always been a but added for good measure.

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you know regardless of where we live...
what we look like...
what kind of car we drive.....
we have all felt this....
i used to think supermodels had no issues and where care free....
but guess what,everyone on the planet has asked themselves ...admit it or not.....
"why me???why can't I find that someone??"
and well.....I have nothing really to say except....well not sure.....I am thinking if you have been married( I haven't) then that person would kind of know not to talk about there dating life to you....
but hey you have to remeber it's a guy,lol.
I am not with the stereo-typing thing but have a few male friends that admit on a daily basis they can really put there foot in there mouths.....I think eventually we all find that "special someone" and well ????
(((((hugs ))))wobin.....I am sorry for your pain,Jo
Wobin, Why do you think you'll be alone? Why don't go and look for a girlfriend, there should be enough women where you live that you can become involved with. I'm trying to be gentle, but if you change some things about your romantic life, maybe you wouldn't feel so alone.
Ex's have a way of manipulating us when we're at our weakest. That's why I don't talk to mine, they have nothing to say that I want to hear. That way, I don't end up upset, angry and have my self-esteem shot to pieces. I couldn't see being friends with any of my ex's.
I understand you have to work and take care of yourself, but when are you going to have fun being single? You are allowed to have fun. Then next time your ignorant ex calls, or comes by, either hang up the phone, or slam the door in his face.
Just a suggestion.
Hugs!
Hugs,
Sebastian
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(((((( Jo ))))))
Thanks Jo for the hugs and yes he is VERY male in that way.
3 times today, after I posted, I went to edit it out. It sounds more like a ' welcome to my pity party ' invite then anything else. I'm kind of embarressed it came off that way.
Hugs,
Robin
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(((((( My sweet knight ))))))
Thanks for answering my post. I'm ok with talking to people, I joke with them, talk about a lot of stuff, I'm told I'm hot, but they never ask me out.
Robin
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one post does not make you a "pity party" type person...
I have posted here for several years as "me"...hardly anyone sees "me".
i can be me here ,this place ,this board,these awesome women have been there for me
well when no one else was....
i posted about my worst times ever,they have always been here to support...
I am thankful I have this place...and well I want to give back anytime I can....
things will look brighter.....(((hugs)))Jo
Wobin, I'm sorry to hear you hurting so much, sounds like he has not been good for you (understatement).
If you can't vent here where can you vent. (Okay, a blog maybe...) But why not here with the rest of us, lol.
It is your board too, you know?
Maybe, people are worried you will turn them down if they ask you out. Have you ever asked any of them out?
I just don't stay to close to my ex's for this reason. It can be hard to watch each other grow in other directions with other relationships. Not that you want them back or don't want them to be happy... I think sometimes it makes you think "well why couldn't we be like that?" Etc.
I also have a policy whether it is right or wrong, to never get back together with an ex. I make sure when I leave that I am sure I won't have regrets and that it is just not going to work out. It seems when people get back together they just break up again for the same or similar reasons.
Yes, I hope you can meet other's and start dating. You deserve to move on.
Don't beat yourself up over your ex, or being single. Every day is a new day. You can always start out fresh each day.
You have been through so much in the past couple of years and you have been doing so well through it all.
It is fine to come here and vent and get feedback and support. You always fit in here and are a part of us.
And no, it does not sound like you are wanting a pity party.
But you know what, it is ok to throw yourself a pity party now and then as long as it does not last forever.
You know what would be funny is if we all had one big pity party, you know like party favors and people take turns getting up and introducing themselves and telling their story and why they want some pity. Then everyone would say "awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww" and blow on their party favors! Then we would eat lots of chocolate and junk food,
while bashing happy people, "just look at her over there smiling, she thinks she is so above us."
Of course we have to play loud country music too. LOL.
Ok, I would love to be the party planner.
Take care, tomorrow is a new day my wittle wobin bobbin.
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I am so sorry your feeling this Pain believe me I know, what your going through.. As far as wanting to still find true love and happiness well.. LOL.. (Sarcasim).....even those of us who have trusted in the Loves we have found are on the pain side a lot.. I am thinking if I can't have this relationship work and I am hurt more(cause I am already hurting) I am thinking I WILL NOT GO INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP.. I will be alone and just love ME!~
Sorry.. I am really angry at this time..
Hang in hon ..Your Ex sounds like a
C >^. A .
"Why, dear Knight, do these things scare the crap out of me".
I would suggest that getting look for someone new, is courting rejection, and who wants to be rejected? But, looking wouldn't hurt would it? I guess it's normal for women and men to find you hot, but they don't have any idea of the beautiful person that you are inside. Why not take a risk and just go and check them out?
Just a suggestion.
Hugs,
Sebastian
http://www.facebook.com/sebastianbruce
"CAT" Runs quickly and bumps Robin out of the spot... cause I am the Stupidest and hey all you I see running to come get in line.... Don't Shove!.. The Line Forms behind us..
(((((Hugs Robin)))))
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C >^. A .
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