I've got to be the stupidest thing ...

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I've got to be the stupidest thing ...
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Sat, 08-13-2005 - 3:37pm

Just a warning, this is going to be a crying-venting-ramble of a post.


I've got to be stupidest thing put on earth. Everytime someone says they " love me " there's always been a but added for good measure.

Robin

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Sun, 08-14-2005 - 11:51pm
Very happy to hear about your day.
I am also happy to hear that you will both get some much needed rest.
I won't call or expect a call tomorrow either in order to not disturb your day. Please feel free to call me anytime.
I really am happy to hear how things are working out for you both.
Remember that you can call anytime.
Hugs to you both,
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Mon, 08-15-2005 - 8:59am

Awwwwwwwwwe Robin,

I have been trying to sift through all the posts here and just read yours today. Recently I too have been reminded how a heart can feel so much love and then it feels like a great stabbing pain and you think you are having a toss heart attack with the chest pains from the anxiety attached to the moment. A song from my teenage years kept popping up in my mind. Do you remember "Love hurts"?

I can't remember the title or who wrote it, but love does hurt. So sorry he crept back into your life. It sounds like he needed to have a reminder about why you got the divorce? It was very rude for him to push his ability to get dates quickly. When I drove away from the court house on the day of my divorce, my husband stood outside and cried, then I had to follow him home. He got in his truck with his girl friend sitting in the seat and I was driving all alone. I thought, how weird is this, he has someone and is crying and I'm all alone and as happy as a pig in TOSS! In fact, I'm still alone. Maybe we are just being too picky? lol Hang in there.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Wobin)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Mon, 08-15-2005 - 10:16am
My pilot, I think you should be picky.
Do not settle for less than you deserve.
Same goes for wittle wobin.
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Tue, 08-16-2005 - 4:30am

Please don't be so hard on yourself, sweet Robin. You've had a lot of difficult things to get through lately and I think it'd be only natural that you'd start to slide back into feelings for your ex, especially when he was showing concern.


It can be very tough to redefine yourselves as friends once the relationship is over.

 

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Tue, 08-16-2005 - 9:30am

(((((Nony)))))


I have so missed seeing your amazing gems of wisdom while I have been gone.

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Tue, 08-16-2005 - 9:39am
I have to agree with nony here.
That was very interesting nony. Thanks for posting those wise words.
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Tue, 08-16-2005 - 11:11am

(((((WOBIN)))))

I've been through this and it really hurts. Keep yourself strong. And keep the thought you matter in your head. I learned a person may state they have changed but they will always be the same. I wish you strength and comfort. Be patient love will find you.

Angel

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Tue, 08-16-2005 - 11:04pm
robin, honey, i have known you for a long time..that man has put you through nothing but agony. i love you to death and i hate to see you go through all this. just remember this, you deserve all the best! don't you DARE think otherwise. you are a sweet, loving woman who deserves to be treated like a queen. he's a loser, honey..don't let him get to you. i'm always here for you! my email is jimmyanddawnie98@wmconnect.com email me ANYTIME day or night, i'm here for you!
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Thu, 08-18-2005 - 7:19am

I've really missed you here, Pam.


*massive hugs*

 

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Thu, 08-18-2005 - 10:16am

I've missed me here too.

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