update/thoughts on things.....

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update/thoughts on things.....
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Mon, 09-05-2005 - 4:48pm
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Edited 9/6/2005 9:34 pm ET ET by cooledbyair1974

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Mon, 09-05-2005 - 6:57pm

(((((Jo)))))


I'm scratching my head here, not quite sure to what you are referring.

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 7:09pm
Awwwww jo,
I wish I knew what could be wrong or why you do not feel welcomed here. I know I would miss you if you left the board.
I wonder if you could email me more about this. I know you have beth to talk to also.
Sheila and I enjoy reading your posts to each other, you and beth. We talk about our own feelings and things when we read your posts.
I hope you feel free to post to who ever you want and how ever you want (with in TOS) Of course.
Have a safe trip and I am excited for you and beth. Please take some pictures to share with us.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Mon, 09-05-2005 - 7:24pm
I hope it is nothing I said. I just read my response to Beth's poem to you, I hope you did not take that wrong.
I was just trying to be playfull by calling her mushy. Only because, she had so much 'splainin' to do before sharing the poem.
Anyway, I hope that is not the problem because I sure do enjoy watching this love story like everyone else does.
Let me know if that is the problem. I sure hope not. I am trying to figure this out and would hate to be the reason for your feeling bad about the board.
I would never tease or joke around in a mean spirited way.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Mon, 09-05-2005 - 8:22pm

Ya know, Jo, I've been trying to be friendly with you, and for some reason, you just seem to be pushing my hand away. I have nothing to appologize for, I haven't said anything or posted anything that was offensive. I used to get upset when I didn't receive an answer to anything that I've shared, big deal. Ok, my ego get's bruised, but I'll live. The thing that's I've learned about being a part of a community, whether it be online, or in real life, is I have to have tough skin, and have fun.

As I've been instructed, by my mom, if I don't have anything nice to say then I'm to keep my mouth shut. I'm happy for you and Beth, and I hope your relationship grows, as well as my relationship with Angel. But, like Beth, Angel can stand up for herself, and I don't need to stand up for her. So, since you didn't say exactly what was wrong, maybe you should speak your mind, and stop going around the issue, or email Laurie, and maybe she can get down to the bottom of the issue. But I do hope you have a nice, safe trip, and if you do decide to stay, I hope to see you when you do get back.

Ciao!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Mon, 09-05-2005 - 9:25pm
Ok, I got an email from Jo, it's ok.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Mon, 09-05-2005 - 10:12pm

(((((Gigi)))))


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Mon, 09-05-2005 - 10:13pm

(((((Laurie)))))


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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 12:35am

I've been around these parts a while and I have seen the board go through ups and downs, clashes of personalities and so on and so forth- but one thing hasn't changed and that has been the level of support and understanding from this online "family" -even though I come and go a fair bit, I never doubt that I will be welcomed back, that I will find support, fun and even a little silliness here... "getting back to roots" suggests a lack of growth...

Sometimes I will read posts and not respond- not because they were posted by anyone in particular but more often than not, because I had nothing to add.

I was the cl for a very difficult board which was created for the members because they couldnt get along with members of the board they were on. They constantly posted in that grey area close to the TOS- they werent called "Hags" for nothing! But they were a neat, fun, supportive bunch of people -telling them off just came with the cl-hat. Really, I was the most angelic and pure and innocent one amongst them....

Isnt it amazing how close you can get to someone online? I did have an online relationship for 3 years- people whom I knew IRL insisted it couldnt be a "real" relationship but they couldnt be more wrong. I think it works better to get to know someone online because the whole relationship is built around communication. I'd like to wish you and Beth all the best.

But I still dont understand what your post was really about...?!


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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 10:29am

they werent called "Hags" for nothing! But they were a neat, fun, supportive bunch of people -telling them off just came with the cl-hat. Really, I was the most angelic and pure and innocent one amongst them....


Those were the days my friend.

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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 10:39am

>>>You do have to have a stomach for the not so fun parts of being a CL.

 

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