I am feeling the need to vent so........

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Registered: 07-21-2003
I am feeling the need to vent so........
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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 10:14am

here goes.

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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 10:32am

((((((((Babystr)))))))) I'm sorry J's not being more compassionate and willing to rearrange her schedule for you. Blending families is not an easy thing to do sometimes. I hope you two can talk through it and work it out.


Happy Bday to your DD and neice!


Hugs,


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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 11:22am

(((((((Babystr)))))))


I do not think you are being overly sensitive.

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Thu, 09-15-2005 - 4:32pm
Awwwwwww sweetie, of course you're not being to over sensitive. This was your family thing and dd's birthday. Anyone would want their partner to share it and want to be involved. Plus, I think I would feel bad for my child if I felt like my partner was not caring about her and her special time. (I do not have children, but I would feel like that I think.)
Maybe her kids needed some Mom time and she didn't know how to tell you or something like that.
I hope this evening goes better.
Happy Birthday to DD!!
Did you get the sign out to the yard?
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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 10:37pm

Hope ya don't mind my commenting... partners need their own space, it is vital... but partners also have to remember what the word partner represents... if one is expected to attend family events, so too should the other reciprocate, it's simple courtesy - and respect for someone you love.


As for the space thingie... said space also carries with it obligations as well, such as not ducking obligations. Relationships do indeed need the space... *and* respect for each other, as well as reciprocation. IMO, a discussion on the topic might be a good thing.

oh sister contine light my wings,
glide on by through the words you're singin' ...

(well sister light,sister contine she comes
in the light she brings well is it hard to run down
in the rain yea) oh sister contine light my wings,
glide on by through the words you're singin'

well can you tell me more,
well I believe I hear you callin' and yes it's hard to run


Sister Contine

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Thu, 09-15-2005 - 11:37pm
First off....... Happy Birthday !~To your (((((Daughter)))) and your (((neice)))..
I, as the others, do not think you are being overly sensitive.. It's

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Registered: 07-21-2003
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 7:38am

Thanks so much for you kind words everyone.