Love and Loss

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Love and Loss
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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 10:19pm

First I would like to thank all of you for welcoming my new lady to our board... I know we have not been around much... its been a very tumultuous time for us... as you know she posted to ask for advice - well her husband found it... not much else to say about it, except that she told me it was over between us.

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Wed, 10-12-2005 - 12:17am

Pooh, I'm so sorry, that this has happened to you. Well, now you can heal and find someone that can be with you and not have to worry about having to hide from a abusive and insensitive person. Hopefully, she's get rid of him, and come back to you, but in the meantime, hold on and you'll get through this.

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Sebastian


 


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Registered: 01-23-2005
Wed, 10-12-2005 - 12:34am

Oh Chelle.....


I know how it feels to be in her shoes. It is a hard decision she sha had to make, and I am sorry that you are hurting.


Happiness is golden, and I truly believe that you will find it again.

 

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Wed, 10-12-2005 - 1:25am

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Hugs Pooh)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


((((((((Hugs)))))))


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Wed, 10-12-2005 - 3:11am
awwww Pooh, nothin i can say is gonna make this any easier for you, so I will just add my {{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}} to the one before. I'm thinkin of ya.

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Registered: 10-01-2003
Wed, 10-12-2005 - 3:14am

Oh Pooh


I'm so sorry to hear this. Just keep your heart open hon.. the right person, the right situation will present itself.
*hugs* ~ Nony

 

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Wed, 10-12-2005 - 7:01am

(((((((((((((Pooh)))))))))))))))

I'm so very sorry! If you need to talk, you know how to reach me. Don't be hard on yourself. And, don't give up! I know it hurts, but hang in there. Big hugs!

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Wed, 10-12-2005 - 10:07am
Wow! Pooh, sorry you lost your love. I know she is doing what is right for her family for now.
I have a feeling it will be hard on her to not be able to be her true self. I am sure you understand her putting the children first, and that does not mean she does not love you.
I would have to think it is also very painful for her husband to have found this out.
Love triangles are very hard and someone always gets hurt. I am sorry that you are hurting right now my friend.
Keep us posted on how things are going and how you are doing. We are here for you.
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Wed, 10-12-2005 - 10:11am

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}


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Wed, 10-12-2005 - 2:14pm

((((((((((Pooh))))))))))) I'm so sorry this happened. I know it's heart-breaking to sit back and watch what she's going through. I hope at some point soon she will find a way to come back into your life.