Update on me!

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Registered: 11-15-2004
Update on me!
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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 12:02am

I just wanted to update everyone on how things are going with the girl I am interested in. We have been talking a lot of the phone during the week and on the weekends. (Luckily, we both have Verizon, so we get free Verizon-to-Verizon calling!) We have a lot in common, and she's very sweet. I wish that she were in New York State instead of Georgia, but we are just getting to know each other, and I know that I need to take things slowly. I mean, we hardly know each other, and neither of us have been in a real lesbian relationship before. I've had relationships with guys (sadly) and she's never had any kind of relationship at all. So anyway, I guess there's really nothing new going on, but I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on how to keep things in perspective? I always find myself wanting to skip ahead and start more quickly than I should. I would love to hear some wise words from anyone who is willing to share with me.

I hope that you all had a great weekend! *hugs*

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In reply to: pinkstar84
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 10:31am

>but I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on how to keep things in perspective? I always find myself wanting to skip ahead and start more quickly than I should. I would love to hear some wise words from anyone who is willing to share with me.


I don't know how wise my words will be Ms. Star, as my track record ain't all that ;^)


Just remember that you are young and your hormones think it's the Indy 500.

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In reply to: pinkstar84
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 12:08pm

Keep taking baby steps with her. I know how tempting it is to jump ahead, but it's always safer to take your time. Keep the lines of communication open, and jut have a nice time getting to find out all that you can about her.

Keep studying and keep up the good work.

Hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 02-04-2005
In reply to: pinkstar84
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 12:50pm
Hi Pink,
I really don't have any wise words, just take your time getting to know her. People are always on there best behavior at first. So beware of hidden red flags that might surfface eventually.
And then just enjoy her and your talks.
You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, I trust you will do ok.
Take care, and I hope you are having a nice day!
Hugs,
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In reply to: pinkstar84
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 7:43pm

Hi! How are you doing? I'm sorry that I haven't been in very good touch lately. This semester has been absolutely crazy. Thanks so much for e-mailing me your phone number. It would be fun to talk to you on the phone. I should send you mine as well. I know that I have your e-mail address somewhere.

I really hope that everything is going well for you. I'll talk to you again soon!