FAMILY IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!!

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Registered: 06-24-2004
FAMILY IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!!
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Wed, 12-07-2005 - 9:33am


My family has come home for a visit from New Mexico. They started off staying at a hotel. Thy slowly eased their way to my house now they have been here for a week staying!! Okay I love them very much. BUT THEY HAVE TO GO!!! They are driving me completely crazy. Everyone that lives at my house normally are hidding in our rooms. I'm in the shower last night (tried to wait until everyone was asleep - at less I thought) and I thought I heard the door open. I peep out the shower and my cousin is going to the bathroom (and not number one either!!) He gets up and flushes and burns me all up causing me to jump out with nothing on. They are eating everything up. They use m y car everyday while I'm at work. It's getting very old very fast.

How do you let them know they have over-stayed the visit??

Angel

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Wed, 12-07-2005 - 9:54am

Oh, Angel. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Family relations can be SO tedious. I think you have to set some ground rules and do it now. Are they going to be leaving on a certain date or is their departure date open-ended?


I think you have plenty of reasons to ask them to leave without making it sound like

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Registered: 06-24-2004
Wed, 12-07-2005 - 11:14am

It's really bad. They came for a little house visit and ended up never leaving. Each night me and my sister enter my room whispering to each other asking if each other got them wonderful words they are leaving. Each night they pull their little night stuff out and my livingroom & diningroom are now bedrooms. I have mattresses lined across my wall.

Trasportation isn't hard either. The train station is like two minutes (walking) away from my house. Buses run every half a hour.

My older sister warned them I was very sweet. But if they got on my bad side I would strike (Hey - I'm a Scorpion). All I know is I'm about to strike.

Angel

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Wed, 12-07-2005 - 12:48pm

Hehe Strike away my friend!


Good luck getting the message across.


Hugs,


Ting

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Registered: 09-29-2003
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 1:09am
Ohhhhhhhhhh I feel for ya ((((((Angel))))).. You might have to step on some toes and hurt some feelings but then again maybe not.. Perhaps you and your sister is it? can call a meeting in the living room and let them know it's just not working out.. You and her need your space

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Registered: 02-04-2005
Sun, 12-11-2005 - 10:55am
Make them watch the movie, "Christmas Vacation" Maybe they will get the hint.
How long do they plan to stay? Sorry they are putting you through this.
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Registered: 06-24-2004
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 10:17am


THEY ARE GONE!!!!!! THEY MUST OF GOT THE POINT AND SAID SORRY FOR OVER STAYING THEIR VISIT AND WENT ABOUT THEIR WAY:)

Angel

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 10:22am

Woooooooo Hoooooooooo!!! Now you can relax hopefully!


Hugs!


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Registered: 09-29-2003
Tue, 12-13-2005 - 1:07am
Ahhhhhhhh

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