Worst Birthday Gift Ever

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Worst Birthday Gift Ever
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Wed, 12-14-2005 - 1:18pm

Well after two years adn what I thought were good times My SO tells me this morning that
she does not want to be with me and that she never was in love with me.

Right now I am trying to figure out what is happening here and where to go from here.

I am as low as low can be right now and NOTHING will get me out of it.

According to someone that we work with she has always been in LOVE with her ex adn I was just a past time for her

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Fri, 12-16-2005 - 10:53am

(((((Deb)))))


I got your email.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 12-16-2005 - 10:32pm

Deb,


First off, it is always noce to "see you", even under such unfortunate events.


Your girl (ex) definitely has some issues. Have you ever thought that maybe she does love you, that maybe she is trying to make you hate her (like the comments about your boy and saying that she never loved you), so that it will be easier for you to leave? Is her ex really still in the picture?


I don't know what else to say, but that I remember when you first posted about her two years back. The way you described it, was almost like she had already noticed you first. I really feel for both of you, even though I don't know both sides of the story. I think there is more than meets the eye with her, and I can only pray that she gets the help she needs.


I don't know that I would be able to leave the house if I were in your shoes and she asked me to stay, so I would be hypocritical if I were to tell you to leave (even if I knew it were for the best).


I feel you Deb. I am also here if you need a shoulder.


Many tight (((((hugs)))))


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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sun, 12-18-2005 - 9:29pm

{{{{{Deb}}}}}}}

I'm sorry to hear that Deb. I do hope that you are feeling better.

Hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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