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| Wed, 12-28-2005 - 11:08am |
Hello ladies, I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday. I made it back from NY.I met Carol's family. Her brother and sister in law has a bed & breaksfast which we stayed at. The family was warm,kind and welcoming. I received presents from them as well. The family commented to me while Carol was out of earshot, since her last visit home in August, they haven't seen her this happy in a very long time. The family said that they notice she laughed and smiled more. They hope I took some credit for this change in her. Carol and I xchange presents last Wednesday evening. We already making plans for the next year. The best part I enjoyed was spending time with Carol and snuggling for 5 nights with her :). We got in late afternoon yesterday. I am going to make the suggested that we have a week nite sleep over as well. Right now , it is just Sat. nites.
Just a question for you all~ growing up in a dsyfunctional home and many years of counseling, I am comfortable about who I am and where I am going, but in the past weeks, I feel that sometimes I am not deserving of all this goodness, does this make any sense. I have to give myself pep talks and I will see my therapist next Monday. Is this normal? I realize that with C , that this is going to a long term relationship and perhaps I have trigger stuff. Enough, pattering on. Everyone have a wonderful and safe week! gracemae59
Just a question for you all~ growing up in a dsyfunctional home and many years of counseling, I am comfortable about who I am and where I am going, but in the past weeks, I feel that sometimes I am not deserving of all this goodness, does this make any sense. I have to give myself pep talks and I will see my therapist next Monday. Is this normal? I realize that with C , that this is going to a long term relationship and perhaps I have trigger stuff. Enough, pattering on. Everyone have a wonderful and safe week! gracemae59

Gracemae, I can understand about wondering if it's ok to feel good about something that's going right. Feel the good feelings and let things between the two of you grow and go the way it's supposed to. I can understand that your looking for the "other shoe to drop" even if it does, just let it play itself out.
If you're happy, and C is happy, then except it as it is, and "don't put your hand in it". Just roll with it, and enjoy the wonderful feelings. But remember to keep your boundaries in place and stay positive.
Happy New Year!!!!
Hugs,
Sebastian
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Gracemae, it's great to see you here. Glad you had a nice Christmas with Carol. I know that feeling of wondering if all the good things are real and if they will last. I felt that way over the past year, and it IS real. That's the wonderful thing about true love and happiness. It's good that you're seeing a counselor. He/she can help you sort out these feelings. Big hugs!
Hi Gracemae!
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Sounds like things are really great.
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halo