Anxious about after graduation

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Registered: 11-15-2004
Anxious about after graduation
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Thu, 02-16-2006 - 9:18am

I'm starting to get so nervous about what I am going to do when I graduate from college. I want to move to the south to be with my girlfriend, but I need to find a job and an apartment down there, which is easier said than done since I don't really know the area very well. Plus, I would be moving to a big city and I've lived in really rural areas all of my life. It will be exciting, but it's kind of scary, too. I just wish that I had someone to hold my hand with everything! I'm so dependent and helpless. I wish that I could change my personality sometimes. I get anxious about absolutely EVERYTHING. Any kind of change stresses me out. I'm twenty-two years old now, but I still don't feel like an adult. Can anyone relate or give me some advice? I could really just use some love and kind words right now.

I hope that you are all having a great week!

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Thu, 02-16-2006 - 9:59am

My goodness Star!

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Thu, 02-16-2006 - 10:14am

I totally agree with Pam, Pinkstar. Plus, you've got someone who can help you get through it all. Hopefully, she will be your rock during this time of transition. Enjoy it! You've got your whole life ahead of you now.


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Thu, 02-16-2006 - 11:47am


{{{{{{pinkie}}}}}}

I can understand about changing, it stresses me out when things change either here in this community,or in my personal life (everyone knows that). But as I adjust to the changes, I become a lot more relaxed. I do have adult responsibilities, but I don't feel like an adult either. But I know if I do something that only an adult can enjoy, then I'm an adult. I guess everyone feels this way, but when I was a kid, I wanted to be an adult.

You're at the most exciting part about growing up, you're starting to move away from the nice safe, secure things that you're familiar with. Spread those wings, young lady! It's time for you to come out of that cacoon(sp) spread those beautiful butterfly wings and fly free!!!!
Always remember, we are here for you to help you along the way!

*Gigi gently takes pinkie's hand and holds it.

You'll be fine, buddy!

Gentle, comforting hugs!

 


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Sebastian


 


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Thu, 02-16-2006 - 8:35pm
Thanks for your kind words! You are so sweet to me, and you have been a wonderful friend. It really means a lot to me that you have been so great about keeping in touch with me. I know that it is hard to get a hold of me a lot of the time and that I've been pretty busy lately. I wish I had real wings, like an angel. I think that they would be pink with rainbow sparkles. I hope that you are having a great night!
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Thu, 02-16-2006 - 9:20pm

You're welcome! I try not to intrude upon your study time or your chatting time (chatting time with your honey). I don't mind being there for you, or for anyone in fact. You have also been a good friend. You make me laugh sometimes at your youthfulness (not that I'm ancient). You remind me of me sometimes when I first came out. Please don't lose that youthfulness and lightness of spirit. I hope to chat with you later, pinkie!

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Sebastian


 


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Fri, 02-17-2006 - 6:31am
I think Pam said it best. You seem to be doing very well so far. Time seem to be flying for you. There are more job opportunities in the cities too.
You do alright each time you move on to the next step. you will knock 'em dead out there! Look at this time as an adventure! You get to start making a life for yourself and if it does not feel right, you will be young enough to start over again. No worries! Chin up! Adventure time!!!
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