I may not come here for awhile

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Registered: 09-29-2003
I may not come here for awhile
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Wed, 03-01-2006 - 12:03am
I am so ashamed.. About my post below and the fact that I tell you all about this stuff and I tell

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Registered: 11-29-2004
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 12:52am

((((((((((Cat)))))))))


See my post below!


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Registered: 01-26-2006
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 2:33am

Hey Cat,


                                          

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Registered: 01-18-2006
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 7:16am

((((((((CAT))))))))))

You are really needing that bad cat book right now. :) (little humor)

You have nothing to be ashamed of. You are warm, sweet, and beautiful. You have great ideas. And, you are the dearest friend anyone could ever have. I could go on and on but you don't want me to be late for work, right? :)

Last weekend, I came here for you. I knew if went too long without posting, you would email me and ask if I were okay. See, that's the wonderful person that you are. You are caring. I want to thank for caring. I want to always have you as a friend in my life. It gives my life more meaning.

I know the ladies around here are crazy about you! They all have a high regard for you. And, your problems are fine to share here. And, just for the record, if there is anything you ever need to talk about, my door is always open. You know how to reach me.

Btw- I haven't had a chance to read your other post. I'll do so this afternoon. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights.

Big, warm hugs,

bf




Edited 3/1/2006 7:28 am ET by blazing-firebird
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Registered: 02-01-2005
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 7:30am

My dear Cat,


I will say only this, I have never nor will I ever think you (or anyone else at the board) are a nut, or wrong to stay in your relationship, or wrong to leave it if you choose.


We are friends and 'family' here and this is a place where I have come to expect people to vent, cry, moan, cheer or profess whatever feelings they have.

 *Hugs ~  Caly

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 7:40am

Cat, you are going through the parts of your relationship that is insane. Please stay, don't leave. I want to know about the topsy turviness of your life. There's another thing about you that I like, you are real and honest. Please don't act as though nothing is happening, that's called denial. Denial is dangerous. I will admit it to you, I wonder why you stay, you must see something in her that we don't. I just don't want you to go away from here. You are like my sister. I know that you are one of the people that I can confide in and keep my secrets. Sometimes I wonder why does she keep playing games, maybe I'm way off base, but maybe she should get a grip and be real with herself and you.

You have a warm heart. You were one of the first people to welcome me here, please stay. I enjoy your company and your unconditional friendship and care. If you need to take a rest, please do. But don't go way, PLEASE!

Comforting hugs!

 


Hugs,


Sebastian


 


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Registered: 10-01-2003
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 7:41am

Cat, nobody is whispering about you. We're honored that you are able to lay your baggage, to rest and to be every shade of yourself with us.


Life isn't black or white, 'shut up and stay or talk about it and go'. Especially when love is involved!! Through your hurt, you've pared

 

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 10:28am

Cat you have nothing to be ashamed of and you definitely aren't stupid! Stop that!

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Registered: 03-30-2003
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 10:32am

(((((((Cat)))))))


My heart wishes that you would leave that relationship.

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Registered: 08-12-2005
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 11:09am

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I came to lurk this morning and read your post about S and Wal Mart and then this.

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Registered: 04-13-2002
Wed, 03-01-2006 - 11:50am

My Dear Friend, "Kitty Cat".... I know it's been a long time but will you believe me when I say you folks are never far from mine and Sandy's thoughts? I "lurk" here fairly often...and when I saw your post I had to come out of "lurkdom" and reply!


It sometimes sucks to be vulnerable, doesn't it. Especially when perhaps somewhere in our journey we've been taught that vulnerability most certainly means pain. We expect more than that from our partners--and thankfully, we often find it. But sadly, the ones we love the most (and often that love us the most) can cause us the most pain.


Cat, there is no shame in being vulnerable. It's one thing to say "It's hard, it makes me uncomfortable, it brings up feelings I don't like, etc..." but there is no real shame in it. It is part of the human condition! We've ALL been vulnerable to someone or something in our lives--and the results haven't ALWAYS been favorable for any one of us.


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