Question of the Week for May 15

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Question of the Week for May 15
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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 6:47am

"On a scale of 1 - 5, where do you rank the Importance of Sex in a relationship and Why?"


(Remember you don't have to be in a relationship to answer this, its your opinion not your experience that I am asking about)

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 9:04am

Well, in my opinion, Sex is only a part of the relationship, but I think it's a 5.5 in my book, but on some day's I think it's 100% of the relationship.

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 1:34pm

"On a scale of 1 - 5, where do you rank the Importance of Sex in a relationship and Why?"

Sex, what sex?!? OK, I have a 16 month old and a 4 year old, so sex is far and in between ;-) Actually, sex is only one part of a loving relationship, things can happen where sex is just not important or in the cards (like pregnancies, children, illnesses, etc) and a relationship needs to be strong enough in other areas to bridge that time. There are other ways to have intimacy with your partner that does not involve sex (I know that there are many men who don't understand this!). Sex is a physical act, love needs to be deeper than that.





















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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 4:21pm

I would put it as a 4. It is important, but it is not everything.

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 4:35pm

"On a scale of 1 - 5, where do you rank the Importance of Sex in a relationship and Why?"

I would say it is maybe from a 2.5 to a 3.....

I personally think that well communicating and other aspects are very important in a relationship yet i think sex is equally important ...
yes sex is not all there is ...
yet I want my partner to feel loved in every way and to know I do find her attractive ,physically as well as mentally,intellectally ,and in every way...
I personally think making love and having fun in your realtionship is very important and well I am very new at intimaticy ,yet when you find the right person (in my experience personally ) you want to share every part of who you are with them,you want them to have you in each and every way....
I found my Ms.Right and well I want to please her every way possible...
I think being intimate is a key part of a healthy realtionship....
my thoughts anyway ...
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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 5:40pm

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 6:42pm

I find that intimacy is at least as important, maybe more so, as sex.


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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 7:01pm

Sex is important, but with a 2 year old and 10 year old...neither of whom like sleeping all night....I am glad that Sex isn't the only thing that is important in a relationship.


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Registered: 04-23-2006
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 7:08pm

Thank You SB!


As long as both partners agree to its importance and are comfortable with that level, I think its great that sex rates so highly for you.

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Registered: 04-23-2006
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 7:12pm
Thanks for the wonderful answer Heather.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 7:14pm

Depends on how horny I am!

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