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| Fri, 05-26-2006 - 4:58pm |
I am desperate need of advice on how not to annoy my girlfriend,lol....
When it is time for my monthly cycle I get so annoying that well I annoy myself...
and while Beth is like baby I love you unconditionally I am thinking she really is thinking *what a freakin Looney !!!*
Lol....
I guess you would say that I am butch in appearence and well a girlie girl inside
where she is femme femme femme and well not as femme when it comes to some things inwardly...
I was seriously wondering if there is like a pill to help PMS and all that ???(Nurse Pam where are you,lol)
Really I don't like this about myself at all...
I blow things way out of porportion....
I over-react....
I get really girlie and cry and well I know some of it is normal...
but I get on my own nerves....
Beth is my mother Teresa :),she even bought me the notebook and told me not to watch it at my time of the month,lol...
so any ideas????
and by the way don't make me cry,lol....
(Things you never would have known about tough ol' Jo)lol.....

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Jo,
I wouldn't have guessed this about you! Poor girl. Poor Sadie.
Well, as you can see by the others posters, we all go through this in one way or another - my big tough Jennifer cries like a sissy 3 days out of every month then gets a 3 day headache after that. It never fails.
I just get a little bitchier than usual for about a week before.
Hang in there, you're not alone - you too Sadie!
Sandra
http://1misstep.blogspot.com/
Sandr
>>>I am able to relax more about it when I do get upset and so it doesnt escalate as much as it could otherwise.<<<
and I guess that's the real area where I really want to help - help her relax and realize that I am not
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LOL, that's the beauty of a loving relationship, we can be freakin looney's at times and our honeys still love us.
Ditto that! I love and adore her looney side. She cracks me up even when she doesn't mean to (and sometimes this gets me in trouble too).
Best of luck on the *change*! I think I still have a few years to go, maybe I will be immune to those symptons as well.......
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I never would'a thunk it either! I guess getting to know Jo in person after creating this *tough girl/boi* image from her online personality over several years, I was thrown!!! LOL, but it honestly makes me love her more.
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Awww (((Jo)))! Like Caly said, she goes through the same thing each month, and it was definitely hard for us to work through at first, but now we have pretty much. It's especially hard when I have the girls at that time and things get really crazy and hectic.
I've learned that there's nothing I can do to make it go away except be there for her. I don't get nearly as emotional as she does, but that may be because I'm on medication (which does not affect my libido, thank goodness!). One thing that has helped me during the times when I get blue during PMS is to consciously think about all the good things in life, because really, no matter what I have to endure that is hard, at the end of every day I go to bed truly happy. It's taken me many years and a very special person *wink to get to that point.
Anyway, there may be a med out there that won't cause many side effects and you can always ask your doctor about it. In the meantime, take care and let your woman take care of you however she can! It will be so nice when you're finally together and she can give you a lot of TLC!
It is hard and especially was for us when Caly first moved here because we were also dealing with lots of difficult things and blending families. But, like you said, there's nothing we can do to change who they are fundamentally! At least we recognize what's going on and love our women truly...we can work through
Do you & Jo
Sandr
Do you & Jo
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Aww Baby shucks,lol....
Hey ladies thanks to you all....
Yes my baby and I have talked about children.
I love children and well if we have a girl I want to name her Sadie ,and she would share the middle name that beth and my mom both have (possibly)...
I think it is something that is possible for our future...
We will see....
Thank you to everyone for your insight....
Have a Great Memorial Day everyone ....
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