Question for the Week of 6/12

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Question for the Week of 6/12
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Mon, 06-12-2006 - 7:03am

Hello All!


This week's query? "What makes someone a Soulmate?"

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Tue, 06-13-2006 - 5:56pm

Hi Poppy thanks for visiting!


That is an amazing connection you and your SO had. I have heard of having the same dream but its cool if you could actually share thru dreams.

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 2:01pm

When we meet someone for the first time and you know that they are the one.

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Isn’t that similar to craving? Like you don’t know what you want to have for dinner and you’re walking around the food court and suddenly, there’s kung pow chicken someone giving out as free sample. You just know that’s the one you want for dinner. ;-)

Please don’t take offense. Just kidding. *grin*
I’m not kidding about this one though. Can you talk the owner into sending Ichiro to the Red Sox, please??? *Smile*

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 2:02pm

I believe you can connect with more than one person in each lifetime at the soul level, and that these soul friends are not necessarily just mates.

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If you have more than one “connections”, does that make the soul mate connection less, equal or more valuable?

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 2:04pm

I definitely think you can have a soul connection with an animal. The most certainly have souls too. I think so anyway.

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Is it a souls connection or connection through mutual needs?

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 2:05pm

It took us years to actually separate after the physical and geographycal separation.

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Now, that’s interesting. So, a soul mate does not mate for life, like the swans. Can that still be classified as a soulmate or another word is needed? In the act of willful separation, can two souls be consider soul mates? hmmm.

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 3:59pm

I do believe that soulmates exist and that everyone probably has one somewhere on Earth. I also think there can be different types of soulmates such as "soulfriends". I've had friends in the past whom I've totally clicked with and wanted to spend the majority of my free time with. I could tell them anything and they could tell me anything.


The same qualities hold true for a "lifemate". With my soulmate, however, there are numerous other qualities such as unconditional love, being compatible in all ways, being in perfect balance with each other, sharing the same values and life goals, wanting to be with each other 24/7, knowing what the other person is thinking without her saying anything, wanting to experience the world together and be open to new experiences in all aspects of life, and many more.

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 6:45pm
Hehe cute Eastie! And I can't help you with the Red Sox thing.. I am not into baseball at all..

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 6:48pm
Thats actually a good question Eastie.

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 6:52pm

No I do think its a soul connection at least for some people. And I have heard stories of animals that become so attached to a person it goes beyond their death and that makes it more then just mutual needs.

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Wed, 06-14-2006 - 6:57pm
Here I agree with you, I think a soulmate is for life, at least the connection is. If the soulmate is a friend though and not a lifemate as we have coined the term, you can

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