In regards to ending sumthin so sweet

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Registered: 12-10-2006
In regards to ending sumthin so sweet
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Mon, 12-11-2006 - 9:13pm

Hello everyone!! Thanks for making me feel welcomed! I really neeeded that advice. Everything everyone said about her wanting "the chase" and the thrill of being desired makes a lot of sense. I kept thinking when we were getting intimate that she was falling for me and that maybe some day something could happen, like a relationship. I put her on such a high pedestal. I have gotten to the point where my heart can't take being tugged and pulled, I have genuine feelings for her. However, I'm realizing I don't think she does for me. She's just enjoying playing her game which really, really hurts! Thanks everyone for being supportive and not judging me. It is pretty awful of me to do that with a taken woman, however I'm not the only one that's at fault here. Thanks again!! I'm sure you'll hear more from me!!

Stacie




Edited 12/11/2006 9:14 pm ET by finallyout06
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2006
Tue, 12-12-2006 - 7:18am

((((Stacie))))) -sending some hugs

I have gone through something similar to what you are going through. It does hurt very much. But, I have found that there are more women who want a relationship than those who want a chase. So, you have lots of good things ahead of you.

Take care

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Tue, 12-12-2006 - 8:49am

I'm so glad we could help, Stacie. Sometimes it really helps to talk with others who are familiar with what you're going through.


I do hope you'll continue to post. We're happy to have you!


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Registered: 04-23-2006
Tue, 12-12-2006 - 6:18pm

Hi Stacie!

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